I just don’t get it

If you read my last entry I had said that on sunday I had surgery on my left ear. They had to remove a tumor from my ear along with lifting my ear drum to drain the infection underneath it. It was a very scary thing for me and I was very nerous through the whole thing. Yes I came out of it just fine and now I just have to take it easy and get lots of rest. Well when all of this had taken place my mother had gone to Florida to go to Dinsey for her birthday with a friend and my younger sister and her boyfriend. My father already lived down there so he wouldn’t have been here either way. When I called my mom to let her know what was going on she kept saying she would come home, I told my mom not to worry about it because she wasn;t going to make it back in time for my sergery anyways. Well her and my dad flew in tuesday night. Well my mom wants me to stay over her house where people just come in and out its loud and her dogs jump all over you. Yesterday my mom came over for like ten minutes and kept asking me if I was going to come to her house and stay and I told her it depended on how I felt. Needless to say I fell asleep so when she called my boyfriend answered the phone and said I was sleeping and that I would not be staying with her that night and her comment to him was "Well if I would have known she wasn’t going to come over I would have stayed another day at Dinsey" That really hurt. Well today she didn’t try to call me at all, when my dad called he told she had tried calling me all day and later she texted me and started fighting with me like I ruind her vacation for nothing when I never once asked her to come up. Neither my mother or father has really called or talked to me. They have seen me once and it was only for a few minutes. I cried my eyes out today after fighting with my mom. I couldn’t believe she would pick now out of all times to fight with me. Its hard enough just walking around more less riding in the car. Why do I have to go see her when she can come see me? She can find a ride anywhere else so why not find a ride to see me? I don’t know it just seems like I matter when it makes my parents look good. I really just want to feel better and not have to deal with this anymore..