Surprise obit
This morning I was thinking about an incident that happened when I was in grade school. Supposedly one of my classmates died. Something about trying to go down a chimney. I’m really not sure. My memories are sort of cloudy about this rumored death. Anyway, I thought why don’t I look in a newspaper archive and see what I could find. So I found a couple of websites that list newspapers and I found one that listed all the newspapers in my state. I scrolled down and saw a newspaper for the town I was born in and I decided to click that link. And I discovered that my aunt had passed away. We were never close. My parents divorced when I was very young and I rarely saw my father’s side of the family. My grandmother, but not my aunts. In an odd twist, I went down a new rabbit hole. I’m pretty sure my mother and my aunt did not like each other. No surprise. My mom didn’t like many people. And years later, I discovered my father wasn’t my biological father, so maybe that’s the reason there wasn’t much love in the family. I’ll never know if anyone knew I wasn’t my father’s biological daughter. But I purchased a tree in memory of my aunt and included a scripture for good measure. Now I just have to finish what I actually set out to do. Looking at obits and being kind of creepy.
What a way to find out. We had a girl who wasn’t killed but was raped in the 8th grade. We stopped going out and riding bikes after dark because of it. After I moved away there was a murdered girl. Her killer was found 40 years later. I am in my home town/middle and high school group pages. If your family’s aunts and cousins etc lived close-by they may know about you but in the days before the internet it would not be common knowledge. What a great upstanding thing to do is honor your aunt that way. You are special. 😎
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