Day Drinking

I love a good day of day drinking.  After texting back and forth a bit we decided to lay out at my pool.  The catch, his friend was in town and needed to come along.  No big deal.  So, not a real date, but fun to hang out with.  By they time they got here it was raining and we decided to get some drinks and lunch.  I took them to a great hole in the wall Mexican restaurant (which they loved).  His super talkative friend from the night below was really quite.  I decided that we needed another girl to even things out.  I called everyone, but they were either tired from the night before, or busy.  🙁  Finally, my roommate and her friend were going to a pizza place back up by my place so we headed back up.  We ended up at a newish bar near my house and had fun just sitting around chatting.  (the friend started being his talkative, annoying, drinking self)  From there we went to another bar and played darts.  Another friend of mine showed up and we had a great time.  Around midnight we headed back to my house and played a few rounds of Apples to Apples.  The friend became super annoying and very opinionated with my roommate.  My guy and I were having fun, and tried to get him to back off, but he never really did.

About me:  When the roomie and the friend went out to smoke we started kissing and things were getting good…but then he stops and says…just wanted to let you know that I just got out of a long term relationship and I don’t want anything serious.  Well, fine.  I was honest with him that I’ve been out of the game for a while and am looking for something more than a hook up…I’m not looking for a boyfriend tomorrow…but it is what I want in the end.  That being said, it’s been a while since I’ve been with someone (ill fated trip to Asheville), so  I said (in my head), what the heck.  He stayed over and we had an okay time.  Yes, sigh, just an okay time.  I think if we got together again it would be great…it definitely had potential, but nothing to knock your socks off the first time around.  He went out of town on business this week, and I haven’t heard from him.  Not that I really expected to (set your expectations low and they will be achieved), he was honest with me about his intent.  We did get along and he kept saying he had a great time (prior to the sleepover).  Who knows, I’ll let you know if I ever hear from him again.

About the roomie:  She’s getting a boob job in December.  Somehow it came out in the conversation and the friend was just offended and tried to talk her out of getting it.  Really?  Like she’s going to take advice from a complete stranger.  He wouldn’t let up…ever.  We tried to get him to stop by he kept going on and on and on….  Finally my roomie got him a blanket and a pillow for the couch and went to bed.  After a minute he went into her room!  Started talking to her about what she was watching on the TV…um?  Why?  When she finally got him to leave he said he might pop his head back in later…creeper!  She locked her door.  I think he ended up passing out. 

So, fun day…nothing long term, but I have to say, it was nice to get some attention.  And I think I’ve come to a realization.  It had been a while and I thought having sex was an itch I needed to scratch, but after, when it was all said and done, I think it was the wrong itch.  I want long term and a one night stand isn’t going to satisfy me.  Not to say it won’t happen from time to time, but it’s always better when I actually like the guy.  I’ll try that next time.