Need a ear for this one

Well, I had to come in here today after a long while because I seem to find my way into sadness every time. The man I met 6 weeks ago has told me that his life at the moment in filled with work, work and work. In so many words there is no place for a relationship at this present moment. But he did not want to lose me. I have no idea what to do, seems like a long shot that he will find space in the near future since his work is so intense. I feel a bit used because he wanted a relationship and did everything to make me fall in love but not seems lost. He is very scared of feelings since he got really hurt 2 years ago. I have been alone 8 years he only 1,5 year. This pattern has been reoccurring in my life this past year. I am trying to figure out why?

I was so sure he was the ONE. I want him to be but maybe God has other plans. Anyway, I’m so sad because I don’t know what he wants.