Day 6: 5 Ways to Win My Heart

Since it is almost midnight in South Africa,  figured I may as well do Day 6.

1. Acts of Love 

Doing something that I love, even though you may hate it but just doing it for me.

Buying me a gift or bunch of flowers, even though I have trouble keeping them alive, but the gesture is still appreciated.

Just doing something Showing me that you care and though of me. And I don’t mean a birthday gift or something kinda expected.

2. Truly Sharin a Love for the Same Thing 

I don’t really remember this as it happened when I was in hospital and was suffering short term memory etc. But this guy came to see me and I didn’t know who he was….I actually told the nurses to never allow him to see me again.  Turns out we apparently went to primary school together for a year and he had returned to the city and was just visiting me to see how I was and was hoping we could be friends. I don’t know how a guy can remember me from when he was 8 years old and was then coming to see me 15 yes later, even though we have never spoken in those 15 years. Anyway a few years later and after the creation of a Facebook account we got connected again and after connecting on our love for Rugby we dated for about a year. 12 years later I still think of him and wonder if him and I would work now.  I question myself on weather ending things with him was such a good idea. I was so happy with him…and now with my husband, I just find myself to be upset so often.

3. Dressing and Presenting Self Well

A man that can dress well and that looks after himself will always catch my eye. When I met my husband he was just like that…..I loved how he took the time to look and feel good. Now I don’t know if it the fact that he has a booze belly, or if it is because he was in a serious relationship which is now his marriage but he doesn’t bother to look all sexy…I wish he tried more

4. Intelligent 

I love a guy who can carry a conversation and speaks sense. I love guys that wear suits more than they were tracksuits. (Last time my husband wore a suit was at our wedding, almost 3 years ago)

5. Gets along with my dad 

Family means a lot to me.  So if the guy that chooses to love me and I love them, can get a long with my dad and sisters then I will love him so much more.

Fuck!! My husband and My family don’t speak unless they have to. He avoids my family. I mean  I know our past history and his drinking has tainted how my family sees him now,  but I wish he would  try.