See Ya

So Brooke and I are leaving today.  Im pretty damn upset all the way around.  Upset with his mom and upset with him.  You all already know the reasons for being upset with her.  As for him, one day I will learn his mother ALWAYS wins, I never do.  I dont even know why I still bother trying to enter the competition when I know how it always ends up, her over me, always.  He has been trying to push us out the door all week, so now he doesnt have to worry about  the obligation of us because we will be gone.  He can go to the bar with his friend and not have to feel guilty, etc etc. The funny part is he tells me I put my family before him.  He told me that it was wrong to feel obligated to my sisters boys blah blah blah.  But ultimately when it comes down to me no doubt putting him first and showing no care for returning to help my sister he doesnt want it.  He is forcing me to do exactly what he says is wrong of me.

His mother has been cold towards me the last few days, so maybe it is time we leave.   We have worn out our welcome and we are no longer wanted around.   Well Brooke may be, but Im not.

Why do I even bother.

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March 27, 2009

Ive had my share of issues with my in laws but thankfully my husband has learned to be on my side. Hopefully after this surgery your hubby learns where his loyalty should be now: his wife and daughter!

March 27, 2009

OMG I know how you feel (I think)!!! I CANT STAND my in-laws and my hubby has yet to understand that he is now committed to ME and our DAUGHTER and his parents have to come SECOND. Im sorry, thats what I believe. His dad always wins over me too and I have talked to hubby SEVERAL times about it that *I* need to come before his dad now. UGH!!! So frustrating! I’m sorry hun!!!

March 29, 2009

*hugs* I’m sorry it came down that that.

March 30, 2009

OMG, in-laws can be so so frustrating!!!

March 31, 2009

I’m sorry about how you feel; hopefully things will level out. It sucks when the inlaws don’t get that they have to SHARE their baby now.