Stress, Patience & Panic

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Patience. ..

The most valuable thing you can teach yourself or anyone else is to be patient. I understand that everyone deals with different situations in their own ways but it can leave the most patient one of us irritated. Like when you are in a panic, do not yell, do not blame, do not speak rudely, and the list goes on.

I consider myself to be one of the very patient people. It’s not something natural; I am this way because of the situations I’ve been through in my life. And while I am not perfect, I do lose my patience sometimes too. I’ve noticed mostly with family members, I get irritated very quickly but if it is any other person, I keep composed pretty well and the other person can hardly ever tell I’m irritated or panicking. Stress creates a person’s patience to vanish as quickly as possible and that in turn can cause all of its down falls.

My point for writing this is my frustration of when people go in panic because of stressing out about something that can be dealt with in a civil manner. Do not tell me to shutup because YOU can’t think clearly. Do not order me to do things because you see no other solution to your problem. Do not scream. None of the above will ever solve a problem.

I’m patient enough to deal with anything thrown my way, almost anything. I’m calm when stressful situations arise and I’m composed when in a state of panic. So please, do not test those waters with me. A close friend and my own mother have extreme conditions when it comes to panic and stress. While, I never paid attention to such a thing, I have started to slowly get irritated by this particular trait of theirs.

My mother makes the worst decisions when in a case of panic. My friend is extremely rude. Those are dangerous things to do. Little by little I am losing my patience. I’m voicing out the fact that “when you are stressed, you yell, you scream, you make rash decisions, you are rude. You need to calm down before talking” but it keeps happening again and again.

I can’t change them. I’m sure they have always been like this – I just noticed it now. I guess all I’m hoping for is a little more patience when it comes to them.