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OMG im a friken junior in high school and like i gotta start thinking bout college and stuff and that will not end without an all out battle with my mom. My mom wants me to go to a school up the street or in the citty and i wanna go like away. i want to dorm but my mom wants me to come home like every night and it all just really sucks. weve already gotten into a few fights cuz shes like "since i payin you go where i tell you to go" but honestly she should just let em go where i want to go. i told ill pay for it if it means i get to do what ive always wanted to do. there is no way in hell im stayin home for college i want to dorm adn get away from my family. i hate my mom shes such a bitch i just cant live with her anymore. everything i do isnt good enough… i gotta 99 average in math last quarter and im so proud of that cuz math is my worst subject….she tells me i shouldve gotten 100 and what the hell did i do to screw up that one point…like wtf be fuckin proud of me…for once.. I fucken hate her. i do what she tells me and i get yelled i do what she doesnt tell me b4 shes going to tell me (fold the laundry, set the table etc..) and i get yelled at i sit in my room watching listening to my ipod she drops a bowl and its my fault! thats not even an exaggeration (i honestly wish itt was!) i cant live with her anymore and dont know what to dooo HELP ME!!!!!
Wow! You’re going to have to take charge, even if it does mean paying your own way, difficult as that can be. Sounds like your mom has some serious troubles, seperating yourself from her might be your only option, for your own sanity. Hang in there!
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she is ur mom.ur only mom.u BOTH need to make changes. u will both have to give some. u will have to compromise. its ur mom. u cant hate her forever.she isnt hurting u.she is trying to protect u.she just doesnt see it at hurting u.she will one day. but good job in ur math class!
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mothers are tough to handle, especially when you’re in high school. just remember that she wants the best for you, and is investing in your future. it’s pretty amazing that you have someone to pay for your education – it’s something most people don’t have. maybe try and find a school that’s close to home where you could live in the dorm and go home on weekends?
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I’m in the same boat with the college thing but not the drama that goes along with it. Do you know what you want to do yet? have you considered doing your prereqs at a community college/ the one up the street and then going away?
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first off- disregard what your mom wants. her opinion on your grades and college plans really don’t need to matter to you. it’s what you want that matters. you know you got a good grade. be proud of that! Her being a c___ about it is her own b.s. it has nothing to do with you. go to school where YOU want. she’ll get over it. she’s just trying to control you. which is pathetic.
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well if i was in your shoes i would do what i had to do…you know that if she is gong to pay for your college you will have to stay there… so get a job if you dont have one that start saving up for it now… but just a thought.. i think that your mom is just not wanting to face the fact that you are getting to the age thta you dont really need her like you used to and that is why she wants to
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keep you close.. everything you described was exactly how my mother used to be… so i just leaned that if i am going to get what i want i have to step up and do what i know is best and do something that will get me closer to what i want… college isnt cheap so maybe try doing your basics at your home college and then finish school somewhere else… then your are compromising a little.. good luck
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