why i’m starting to get annoyed

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This entry may piss some people off. I no longer care.

Alrighty, so Saturday night my lovely darling Andie and headed over to Zach’s place. This happens to be the place where the guys game. We were not planning on staying long, nor were we planning on interfering with said gaming.
We went over to visit the people. We knew gaming was going to be late cause of the Rocky meeting. The evening should not have been a volcano waiting to explode.

The first thing I hear upon arriving to said place, “Hey, I had a {—} dream about you the other night.”

Hello? I’m dating, quite seriously I might add, a friend of yours. Do not greet me in such a manner. It was rude. You seem to have flirtacious feelings. I can understand that, but you crossed the line.

The next thing I hear is a comment from someone else. “Tell your boyfriend not to yell at me for not showing up to the meeting. I didn’t have to be there.”

First of all, hi to you too. Second, I’m not your messenger service. Third, don’t bitch about being yelled at about coming to the meeting. You called my boyfriend, in the middle of my date, asking him the details of said meeting. You wanted to know what time it started and what was going on. Now, you feel he has no reason to call you and ask where you are?

Following those two issues the night seemed to be going alright. There was the normal sqabbling and wisecracks. All people’s were made fun of. Fun was had. Outside the weather was getting snowier and the drive home less appealing. The group started noticing the latestness of the time.

“Where the **** is he? He said be’d be late, but come on. etc” People started getting bitchy.

Wait one second. Wasn’t it just last week that the game started way late because someone who was supposed to provide rides for people left early and whole new arrangements had to be made?

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Now for the record, said people left because their s/o was getting bored and enjoying themselves. This I have to issue with. I also gives kudos for said person trying out the whole shebang, but seeing as how the other someone was going to leave for gaming anyway couldn’t you have taken two seperate vehicles?
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Back to the subject. People are complaining because my boyfriend isn’t there yet. What about all the times I hear about people just not showing up? What about all the times that people decide something else is going?

My boyfriend calls and says that the roads are bad and he is not coming. Now everyone is upset. I call him up and ask how the highways are. He says they are slippery and that the trucks are just starting to come out. He asks me to pass along some warnings about the entrances to the appt to his roommates. Roommate A tells me it’s just a bunch of crap and my boyfriend is just feeling lazy.

Yeah, he’s feeling lazy. He’s driving a car that’s 20 years old and that has been in and out of the shop for the past year. He just got it back not a week ago and the main reason it was in the shop was because one of the tires was coming off! Sure, lets drive it through the ice and snow all the way to a game where you might get an hours worth a play

Look, personally I think he would have been better off telling them he was going to be too busy to come to the game. He had a surprise bday party he was going to which was going to make him later to the cast meeting. A cast meeting that usually runs late anyway. But he didn’t.

Lastly, the thing that gets on my nerves the most, is as follows. Forever and a day my boyfriend was the runt of the group, The b*tch. And as someone put it so eleqoently the other night, “Then he got a girlfriend and thought that he was somebody.”

Ok, maybe this sounds like gf bias, but he is. He has a job. A steady, full time job. He’s able to pay his bills, his rent, and have money left over. He has thoughts and opinions. He has worth. And most of the time no one seems to give him credit.

It’s not all directed to him either. I know it was ment as a joke the first time, but when people come up to you and ask, “So why are you dating him?” or “If you’re ever feeling like being with a real man, come see me” how do you think that makes me feel? These are supposed to be his friends. Most of the time they are good people.

If it was just this one night I’d say I was over-reacting. But it’s not and I’m getting so freaking tired of it. I’m not the messenger boy. I’m not here to relate all your thoughts. I’m just someone who was trying to get to know the people of the person I love.

Perhaps I should have just stayed away.