June 30, 2007

Do You Ever Just “Know”

This morning when I woke up I was thinking about something my 8th grade teacher had told me. He was dating someone and he had asked his married family and friends how they knew their significant other was right for them. He asked them if they "just knew that they were meant to be together". He posed this question to our class. I have to admit I was the first to scoff and shake my head I thought to myself "you don’t just know". Even then I was jaded. I didn’t believe in love and all that other crap. To my suprise he said that the couples that were just content said that "you can’t just know" while the ones that were really happy-the ones like you see in all the romance movies knew that they were meant to be with their significant others.

I have gone out with a lot of people, and once or twice I had that feeling of "just knowing that it was right". However both of these times ended in disaster. Is it possible for two people to "just know"?

Wow – sounds like we’re on the same wavelength. In my situation, things have been getting better and better all the time, but you still have the wonder whether “this” is it. It’s exciting in a way, but a nervous excitement, I guess. Of course, in my past, I also felt like things were great and I ended up being on the receiving end of a breakup. So what do I know? :-p RYN: My madskills? *blushes* I do try. Heh heh.

amandacolene

July 1, 2007

the thing is that ‘knowing its just right’ feeling isn’t necessarily a forever feeling. you get that feeling when you’re in the right place for that time of your life. its an affirmation. it doesn’t mean that it’ll be right forever so most of the time i think its better to be happy with the right now.

Tornfromtheinside

It is possible to just “know”. I mean anything is possible. This is a smaller example, but when you came to visit, I knew that you were going to be the first girl I ever kissed. It was the ease in which we got along and the way you reacted to me and looked at me. I knew. And I am glad you were my first.

*random noter* you’ve made me think now… wow… ill get back to you on that… lol Charley x x

Phaedrus

I think we all just “know.” Otherwise, we would not jump in as we do with all heart and soul. Problem is that while we did indeed “know” at the time…over time…we find things, people, and circumstances change so what or who we knew then, becomes something or someone else.

Ryn: Sure you could. You just need to remember to check your brain at the door each morning.

JACT

I’v become a cynic on all that. Every time I think that “she is the one” it ends up as a disaster. RYN- I don’t know. I’ve bene on myspace for a while and its been like ehh and have been on facebook for only a few days now.

sapphire knight

ryn…….well it depends if i hear anything about working on tuesday, though i did realize today that more than likely if i am going back to kohls i wont be hearing anything (well maybe i’ll hear about it but work wont start till then) about it until thursday or a week from monday……I’ll call u monday after 5 and let u know a time or pherhaps see about great america-as I really want to have