Contract Re-Negotiations

Well a lot can change in a day or two…

My 10 day walk out has made it’s point, and the wife has finally seen the troubles and points I was trying to make and has offered to sit down and work things out.

This by no means either of us are off the hook… we have both said that.  But we are at least going to sit down and try to do what is best for us, and what is best for our son.  Neither of us are perfect, but it seems like it takes me to just loose it for her to pay attention.

But an eye-opener it has been for the two of us.  I think we were both stuck in a rutt regarding our current living arrangements and goals.  We can’t live with her parents anymore.  they are awesome people, but they have thier life they deserve after 30 odd years, and we have ours that we deserve after 4.  We were giving into their ways and pushing ours to the side and neither of us spoke up or even maybe noticed what was going on.  Some very strong personlities in the house.  I just hit my limit.  I think she hit hers as well and it just came out as a nasty bithcy person.  Who knows… but at least we are talking about it and realize the probs.  We do have a lot of work to do.  We need to get our assess out of the house!

I have a lot of other posts to add from my phone.   they will be scattered but probably the truest I’ve written while out of the house.

And I need to get sleep… I definitely and officially have sleep issues.  I’m sure it’s not helping by bi-polar or my health in general.  This dumbass system of psychiatry over here sucks!