Changing Houses
I very much know there are worse things in life than moving but now I’m hard pressed to name them. This will be a long slow move. Lots of dealings with plumbers, carpenter, electricians, fence builders, locksmiths, IT & media specialists, painters and probably more that I’ve blocked from memory.
New refrig, stove top and oven, sitting in their crates in the dining room while carpenter builds new cabinets to fit modern appliances. Apparently the previous owners made coffee and used the microwave because the rest were unusable. The new washer sits alone, not hooked up because the new dryer which was supposedly in stock is out of stock and will arrive Feb 7.
Still stuff at old house that needs to be packed, brought here or sent to charity.
Seems like the local ants were told it was “moving day” because they joined us in a major invasion in the kitchen. So therefore boxes of kitchen stuff remain in boxes, unpacked as we decide if the ants need professional urging to leave or may just leave on their own. Two days now with no ants so there’s hope.
The dogs are happy and that makes life better.
Normally, I would just resign myself to more days of chaos and just deal with it but Terry’s martial arts’ master is getting married on Feb. 14 and Terry’s is best man. No problem there except a couple from Boston will be staying with us from the 11th to the 16th. Since they have housed Terry twice in visits to the Boston area karate schools, it’s only proper that we return their hospitality. They are aware of the situation and I’m told they are very nice people and will understand. But I wish it were perfect for them.
Even with all of this, I still love, love, love this house. It truly is my dream house. Terry (& others) sort of understood when I said our last house was uncomfortable and disjointed. Now he really understands what I mean. Comfortable homes should have a “flow” and that one was nothing but a series of rooms with no central area. When these unfinished items are done, I know it’ll be something wonderful. Heck, it’s wonderful now, even in this state. I’ve never before moved into somewhere that I truly loved. All the rest were “I can make this work” type of houses/apartments.
Of course, once we moved I found out that most of our furniture really doesn’t fit this type of house. But I’ll think about that tomorrow.
Having moved last year, after thirty-some years in the old place, I know what you mean. We thought everything was done when we moved in. Hah! Best of luck.
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i don’t envy you; but you’re right….keep your eye on the goal and remember that soon all this mess will be sorted and just a dim memory as you glide through the house loving the results
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ryn……..yep we’re separate twins of different mothers..and your note was right on target. meg is aloof at worst; does talk to me but on her DAD’s iPhone lolol..ah she’ll get over it. one thing i’ve noticed in all the years of her going away (france, ireland, UK) that when she returns she’s more mature and in the past few years she’s only been to china x2 but i saw it then as well. im hoping i see it again; that level of her managing without the kneejerk reaction to contact us. she’s dropped a little weight or shifted it around with these new meds and three flights of stairs to get to her apt each day and told us the jeans don’t fit…..then she complained it was $400 worth of jeans and i nearly dropped my drawers again….and wondered if she’s lost her sanity in the process of losing her finance’ out there…..omg; we’re not fancy jean buyers/wearers..of course if it’s ten pr of jeans she’s talking about; ok. but if it’s 4 pr then again, i just shake my head and roll my eyes.. lolol
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