Happy?? Birthday

well, for those of you that didnt kno. yesterday was my 25th birthday. the best day of the year, March 31st. there are so many people born on that day. i saw so many parties for people it wasnt funny, but i’ll get to that in a minute.

ok, so on to my weekend. i decided to do somethin this year for my birthday. so i call up a friend "M" and make arrangements to go to ATL. well, i dont drive, so i start looking for someone to take me. during that search i decided since someone was gonna have to take me, i might wanna invite them to spend the weekend down there with me. that led to me inviting my roommate "C"(who drives and was suppose to go get his car, but didnt), the guy thats always in my room eatting my food from previous entire "J"(he also drives, but has no insurance, so his dad wont let him have his car), the guy that got me a job "D"(he drives and his overlly causious). i invited others and to go and asked others to take me, but it didnt work out like that. anyway, i invited these guys. they coulda said no, i had back up plans. but each of them said they wanted off campus, plus it was my birthday and they "my boys", so they decided they woud go. BIG MISTAKE!!!

first of all, i dont have guy "friends" for a reason and this weekend, just reinforced that for me. i tried to say that maybe its because everyoine on the trip is 18 and fresh out of high school and their parents house, or maybe its because we were spending so much time together. but to be honest, i just dont get along wit guys that well. they are so dumb, i give every woman much respect for putting up with them *stands*, *gives a round of applause to every woman reading this*. i dunno how you all do it. but anyway, these guys kept being random and making dumb comments and just truly actting their age. now, this would be ok due to their age, but the problem is that they dont act like this all the time. i never seen this side of them. if i had seen it before, then i woulda known not to take them or to be prepared for wat was to come.

ok, so lets recap the trip…
Friday- we leave around 4pm to go to ATL. after i’ve been asked 50 times throughout the day by D if i had got the directions. which i got the day before. i am not a last minute person unless its school work. anyway, so we get to ATL, check into the hotel, which they complained about. but no one wanyed to spend too much money, so you get wat you pay for. then we go to mall, because they wanna walk around and i wann go see "meet the robinsons". but everyone is hungry, so i dont go to the movie and we go out to eat. then we go back to the hotel, because we suppose to have a long day ahead of us saturday.

Saturday- i said we were suppsoe to, so i guess you kno things did not go as planned. anyway, as it turns out M doesnt get out much. so when we tried to meet up she had a tough time getting out. so we wake up early and the guys get restless really fast, so i took them to the Underground. like i said we get there and they start actting like they scared and stuff. so we walk around for a while, from their we’re suppose to go to the mall and watch the movie and stuff, like we was suppose to do the night before. however, M is not comfortable riding in the car with 4 guys, three of which she doesnt kno. so we have to wait for her mom to get done getting her hair done (which takes forever for every balck woman in america). so they guys keep making smart comments about the day, but they grown they can go whenever they want. but they scared because they dont really kno where they goin, but you can get directions anywhere on mapquest. so i dunno watthe problem was. i didnt hav to go. because after the Underground i was kinda tired. so i slept for a few hours. then i wake up to them complaining still. so i leave them in the room and go for a walk. the hotel is close to a lot of stores and stuff. so i go and get my nails done, yes i get my nails done. then as i’m walking back to the hotel they pass me and tell them to go on where they was goin with out me. i call up people just venting. then the games starts (NCAA), we was suppose to been to the mall, seen my movie, walked around the mall, and on our way to Dave & Busters by now. unfortunatley we are still stuck at the hotel waiting for M. finally, after her and her mom "talk" she comes and we all go to D&Bs. we eat and watch the rest of game one. then we decide to go to the mall and they complain again, because the mall is far. mind you there was one closer, but they didnt like that mall. so then they get on my nerves again. we get to the mall, i go to the movies, they decide to go downtown, because the mall was closing in 30 minutes. then we have to leave the movie early, because her mom wanted to go to a party with her boyfriend. then when M gets home her mom changes her mind. so i dont talk to anyone that night

Sunday- i wanted to go to (my bishops) Eddlie L. Long’s church, but after the night i had, i didnt wanna do much of anything. so i just go to M’s church. which totally sucked, because after all i went through the one thing i needed was a good word. and this negro had the nerve to not preach anything. all he wanted to do was scream, yell, shout, dance, and play games. i told one person it was like being in pre-school playing follow the leader. he kept saying turn to your neighbor and say this, look your neighbor in the eye, take your neighbor by the hand, do this and do that. like simons saya. i was so upset. but then her momma cooked for us. that was great. the food was good, but her momma aint no cook, she said she had to rush since we had to be gettin on the road. but either way i enjoyed the food. then it was on the road back to TTU. i slept the entire way.

anyway, the trip was ok tho. i got off campus and i got out, two things i dont get to do very often. anyway, its back to school for me i guess. i think i found something else that interest me… ADHD

until next time…