Survey :P

Are you young at heart, or an old soul?
You know, I really don’t know. I suppose it depends. My routines reflect an old soul. As much as I’d hate to admit it, right now, I probably plan my young at heart moments.

What makes someone a best friend?

What Christmas (or Hannukah) present do you remember most?
Mom got me a Microsoft Zune in 2005. That was an amazing Christmas. She had just got divorced and was on a girl power trip and I was all about it. We were all so close and at the time she had money to get us gifts.

Tell me about a movie/song/tv show/play/book that has changed your life.

Wow. When I think about songs, I think about Madonna. There is literally a story for every song. She is by far my favorite artist. This last tour, I went by myself. I had the time of my life.

Name one physical feature that you like about yourself, and one you dislike.

I know this is weird but I’ve always loved my calves. Something I dislike would be my hairline—once I graduate, get certified, and get a billion-dollar job, I can afford to have the Neograft procedure! XD

Would you like to reconnect with any friends you’ve lost contact with?

I don’t know the answer to that. The friend that comes to mind is so stubborn and refuses to see how she hurt me. I’ve tried reaching out an olive branch but wished I didn’t after her reply left more to be desired. I think one of the greatest flaws in humans is the ability to remember all of the good and forget all of the bad. Sometimes, there is a reason you lose contact with people

What’s more important in a relationship: physical attraction or emotional connection?

What a stupid question…I think you have to have both in a relationship. You have to define those things for yourself. I will say, I’m cerebral in nature so I HAVE to be able to have someone understand my brain, my thought process, the shit I laugh at, the shit that makes me cry, all of that. Physical attraction is less important. I think this question implies you can’t be attracted to someone who is not considered “handsome” or “beautiful” by conventional standards.

Name a movie that you knew would be terrible just from reading the title.

Any of those superhero movies. They all miss the mark for me. Not my genre.

What holiday do you most look forward to?
I like decorating for Christmas. Thanksgiving is always fun too.

How is the relationship between you and your parents?
Mom is THE quintessential ride or die. I want to be able to buy her a new car with cash one day to show my gratitude for her support.

Dad…we’re just two totally different people with nothing to relate on. It’s all very surface level and that is probably where it will remain. He has been supportive of me going back to school and is helping me pay the difference of what student loans don’t cover, which is a Godsend. I’m really thankful for that.

You’ve got the TV on, but you’re not really watching. What channel is the TV on?
Probably the news or TLC’s my 600 lb life! LOL

Name a song that never fails to make you happy.

Holy shit, I never realized how depressing my music taste is until trying to find a happy song! I suppose anything Swedish House Mafia.

You know at least one person named Michael. Tell me about him.

My cousin on my Dad’s side. He overdosed on drugs a couple of years ago. He had the perfect home, perfect education, perfect everything. But the control and religious convictions of his parents sent him venturing out for rebellion. And I feel their control led to his death.

If you could pick anywhere to live the rest of your life, where would it be?
Somewhere tropical and on the beach!

Can money buy happiness?
No but sure as hell can make things easier.

Do you drink? Smoke? Do drugs? Why, or why not?
Nope. I don’t know why, never been interested.

Is there anyone close to you that you know you can’t trust?
No, I’ve pretty much weeded all people out of my life lol

Where was your favorite place to go when you were a little kid?
Burger King to get French toast sticks lol

Have you ever spent a night in the hospital?
With my Grandfather, yes.

Do you enjoy being with only one or two friends, or with a large group of people?
One or two for sure!

Do you like the type of music your parents listen to?
My mom listens to a lot of 80s, I like it all but have to be in the mood to play it on my own. Mainly when I’m cleaning LOL

Have you ever been bullied? Have you ever bullied anyone else?
Of course lol there is a lot to make fun of. I can’t recall when or if I’ve ever bullied someone. D little brothers count? If so, I surely bullied him a bit lol

If you could only eat one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Pizza lol Pizza….

Do you believe in a god?
I don’t know. I know that when something is wrong that is who I pray to for help. I also think it is more likely that a God exists than ‘we just came from moons and stars.’

If you could give up your car and never have to drive again, would you?
Hell no, that is giving up some control! LOL Plus, everyone drives with the music on full blast when your mood is crap, not having that would blow!

If you go back to one point in time to give advice to yourself, when would you go and what would you say?
I’d tell an 18-20 year old me to go back to school. One of my biggest regrets is having to finish college at the age of 30. A lot of other people do it much later than me but I think I could be so much further ahead if I already got this out of the way. Of course, I know that I was not in the mindset at that time in my life. It was like throwing money down the drain. And I had no clue what I wanted to major in. Everything seemed like shit. Hindsight is always 20/20 but I wouldn’t have figured all of it out now if I didn’t make a few mistakes earlier.