once-a-month sex…how frustrating

Me and my boyfriend only have sex once a month and most times I’m usually the one that initiates it. Its frustrating because when I ask for it, he usually tells me that that’s all I think about and that I have a one-track mind. I don’t believe that. I consider myself a normal 24-year old that likes the idea of making love to her man.
I find it strange that he makes no attempt at making love and doesn’t seem interested when I ask. That’s another thing: I know I shouldn’t have to ask.
I read in an article that I shouldn’t have to ask, its degrading. But how else do you get a man that doesn’t seem interested in sex to have sex with you?

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December 8, 2008

ryn: Yeah, I know. That’s why I stay away from sites like Monster and Careerbuilder. I’ve never gotten an interview from them. I use craigslist. I’ve gotten a couple of jobs through them.

February 25, 2009

I had an ex that never initiated, and got mad when I asked saying that I want it too much. We had sex 1x a month if I was lucky. Turns out he was trying to sleep with every other thing that crossed his path, so he wasn’t interested in me. -grumbles-