Happy B-day to Me! It’s Rainin Men, Halleluah!!!!!

So this last weekend was my Birthday, yup I’m gettin old   Had an AWESOME weekend. Bunch of friends and I went to my favorite bar/nite club Sat nite. We had a perty good turn out, more then I actually expected to show. I could go on and on with everythin that happened that nite, but it isn’t that important. What is important was I met a guy. And not just a "guy," I finally roped me a cowboy. Totally 100% true cowboy. Born and raised on a Farm, lived in the country almost his entire life. So, he was very nice and respectful. After hangin out outside in the "smokin section" fer the bar, we had gone inside to play pool. As we were playin, I notice that Security is escortin my best friend out of the bathroom. She had been in there fer almost 30 minutes, sick as a dog. Guess  no one told her not to go back and forth tween beer and mixed drinks. So, we let the guys know that she is there with me, and that I would take her out. Yup, my Best Friend got 86ed from the bar lol (she was proud of herself the next day lol). Anyways, so, I’m textin her bf and sister lettin them know what happened and they met us out front. Durin this entire time, the cowboy has not left my side. One thing leads to another, and all 5 of us head home. He agreed to drive my truck and take them home. We dropped off my Best Friend and her bf first. As we are walkin to her apartment however, her bf pulls "Cowboy" aside and orders me to keep walkin. They follow behind a few paces. We hung out there fer bout 30 min, then left to take my Best Friend’s sister home. As we are leavin, the bf pulls me aside and tells that this guy is lookin fer more then just a 1 Nite Stand, and that he totally approves. After we dropped off the sister, we headed back to my side of town. WE both basically decided that we weren’t tired, and didn’t want to part yet. So we went bak to the bar to get his car, and headed across the street to the Circle K, I needed a soda  and some chocolate. We left there and went just down the street to the nearest hotel. He got us a room fer the nite.

We ended up talkin ALL nite long. I learned alot bout him. He’s 37, Divorced, with 2 boys, 3 & 7. He had lived in AZ fer 11 years, then married and moved to CO. Then, after 10 years of marriag, his wife just decided she didn’t want to be married anymore. So, they got a Divorce. He has been back in AZ fer 3 weeks. He moved into his father’s basement. He is tryin to start up his Car Restoration Business and plans to buy land up near Williams, AZ, which is in Northern AZ. We finally fell asleep round 5am. He woke me round 8:30 and we talked a little more. I didn’t get home till 9am Sun.

So..it takes EVERY ounce of me to keep from callin him that entire day. Yes, I was smart and got his number before we parted ways. And I am sooo proud of myself. I didn’t call or text him all day Sun. I had the next day off, Mon. And round 8:30 that mornin he text me sayin, "Hey darlin, what ya doin?" My reply? "Hey Baby, am sleepin." So he asked me to text him when I wake up. I woke up round 11, and text him,a nd from that point forward we text eachother off and on through out the day.

I had to meet with a client of mine, as I was gonna be in his area that day, to sign some paperwork fer his Insurance. I get there, have him sign his forms, then let him know how much money I need from him. At thatpoint his father totally starts hagglin the price with me. Only, he’s doin it in Italian lol Though I don’t know it’s Italian. I let my client know that he can mail the payment and he walks me out profusely apologizin fer his father. I told him it’s no big deal. He asked to repay me fer takin time on my day off to come see him, and offers to by me lunch. Now, I’m thinkin it isn’t always a good idea to "associate" with clients outside of work, but I give him my card and tell him to call me when he is in the area and I will let him know. He was totalyl flirtin with me the entire time. I made an ass of myself cuz I thought they were Spanish. When he said good bye and Thank you, I said yer welcome in Spanish. He smiled at me and said "No, I’m Italian." Talk bout embarrassin!!!!! Anyways, I told him, as I am turnin bright ass red, that I don’t speak Italian. At that point he offers to teach me.I told him we’ll see and I got in my truck and left. I had to call him yesterday fer work reasons, and he mentioned again repayin me fer comin out there. If not lunch, then maybe a drink. And that the ball is in my court, that he would understand if I can’t, but would love to take me out. I hang up the phone, blushin again.

Later on,  am still talkin to "Cowboy."  Mon nite he had asked how late I was plannin on stayin up and I told him I usually am in bed by Midnite. At that point he’s tellin me his plans fer the next week. How he and his brother are havin a "boys  nite" and then on Thurs he is flyin to CO to see his boys and won’t be back till mid next week. That he wants to see me before he leaves. I let him know that due to family reasons, I have the house to myself Tues nite, and then Wed nite havin "family nite." He asks me if I’, implyin that he come over Tues, and I simply replied by sayin "It’s a possibility." Anyways, so we made plans fer him to come over Tues nite. Originally he wouldn’t be able to show till 10, I told him that was fine, that I would make him dinner.

So Tues, yesterday, comes round. He called in the AM to tell me Good Mornin and to make "Official" our plans fer the evenin. Then he lets me get to work and doesn’t bother me all day. At 5 I text him askin if it’s quittin time yet? He replied by sayin there’s a change in plans. Yall know what I’m thinkin at this point.   That frowny face is exactly what I sent him. He then asked me not to be upset. So I just called him.  He then told me that his brother cancelled, so he was able to come over sooner then 10.  So, I rush home, help Baby Bug with his homework, go to the store to get what I need to make dinner, go back home, clean up the house a little bit, and shower. By the time he shows up, dinner is almost done. He complimented me on my "cooking abilities" and thank me fer dinner. We then sat down and watched Desperado. Not that we paid much attention to it ::wink wink:: Anways, we ended up goin to bed round Midnite.

My first alarm went off at a quarter to 7, and I turned that off. I don’t even remembe

r  the second and third alarms goin off. Bout 7:25 I wake to him softly tellin me it’s time to go to work, it’s 7:25am. When I opened my eyes and looked up, there he was, sittin right next to me, watchin me sleep. He said Good Mornin Beautiful, what time do you need to leave fer work? I told him in like 5 min. We both crawled out of bed, he let me get ready fer work without "distractin" me and we left my place round 7:45am.

Such an awesome time I had last nite. I won’t ferget the things he said to me, how he treated me last nite. With the utmost respect. Every time he kissed, it wasn’t forceful. He would cup my face in his hands and caress my cheek and chin. As we were lyin in bed, he mentioned how it has been a long time since he has slept like that, and how he missed it. How he missed bein able to cuddle at nite. Durin the time that we did watch the movie, we cuddled. He sat so close to me, that I was practically in his lap. He gave me a back massage like none I have ever received before.

My friends are tellin me to "be careful", but at the same time tellin me "Go fer it!"  My other Best Friend, not the one I mentioned earlier, told me to be careful. And reminded me on how quickly I tend to fall fer a guy. She doesn’t want me to get hurt. But is also happy fer me as well.

Thus the end of my "Dry Spell." I don’t know if I’m gonna take my customer up on his offer fer a drink. But I know that I really want to see where things lead with the Cowboy. No pushin, take it slow, yada yada yada and all that jazz. I had a good time last nite, so did he. Wish me luck.