random thoughts

 
I really need to find a new place soon, i came home from work to see my mail opened- needless to say i was livid.
putting my focus back into finding a place ASAP
 
I got paid last weeked, i was planning to put some money aside to save for a new car..funny how things dont turn out as planned, soon as i got paid i have my mother with her handout wanting money for the dog.

My dad asking me for money so he can go to austin for the 4th.
plus i owe my sister $50
 
Then i had a libary fine i had to pay off
 
AND a $25 overdrawn fee with my checking account.
so there goes most of my check.. gotta love it.. smh

I’ve been stressed out to the Max about financial matters lately, kindof bringing me down a bit.

I got out of work an hour ago, came home, made something to eat, sat at the comp for awhile when i got a knock at the door. its some strange guy saying his girlfriends at the hospital and he needs gas money to see her.

I dont know if im just totally jaded from being scammed before. but i had no sympathy whatsoever, even if his story was true.

Told him i was broke and he left..pretty sure it was a scam anyway.. Pretty bold of him to go door to door for ‘gas money’ though.
 
I was debating with my friend Kurt about stereotypes and interracial dating last night on the phone. one thing ive noticed about living in the states compared to when i was living in Europe is that it is alot more acceptable to date interracially overseas.
 
Here its more of a passive agressive behavior that i see from people when Drago and I would go out somewhere. its mostly older people who make a comment, give you a dirty look. but we also would get that from black men as well, which i find laughable, being that its more common in the states to see Black Men with White Women.
 
So why do they care about lil ole us? hmm
 
I heard D’angelo is coming out with an album later this year.. its about damn time. aside from his cocaine use and his legal troubles i really didnt think he’d make a comeback.. its good to hear though, was listening to one of his albums earlier.
 
another person i’ve been listening to lately is 2pac, i used to have all of his albums as a kid, had his posters, shirts you name it. its still surreal sometimes that he’s gone. doesnt help when he comes out with an album every year either.
 
sometimes i wonder if hes just living on some island somewhere..
 
I dont have anything planned for the 4th, might go to my sisters- aside from that nothing exciting going on.
 
Still havent heard a word from Drago, cant say that im not surprised though..
I havent thought of him too much recently, guess thats a good thing.
 
coming to terms with being Bisexual. The end..
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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July 3, 2008

where in Europe did you live?yeah,me and my boyfriend sometimes get the looks…even though theres tonss of interracial couples.we usually get looks from really ghetto black girls though..or older ignorant ladies.not much from men though.i need money too,it sucks not having it…

July 3, 2008

me and gho get looks like that too, especially when we would go out back in south carolina, we went out to eat one nite and thsi old lady staired at us making faces the entire time! im sorry money is stressing you to the max, I hate when that happens and im sorry everyone has their hand out for money. you should just tell them no 🙂 <3 sorry you havent heard from drago but im glad youre not lettin

July 3, 2008

it bother you so much, good job!

July 3, 2008

Money should grow in trees!! I get the dirty looks too and I live in NYC, so I can imagine interracial couples in small towns in the Midwest. I don’t know why people care…One time we had a black chick approach J and call him a sell out. lmao

July 4, 2008

YEAH for interacial relationships….i wouldnt be here if it wasn’t for one. I feel you on the finances. I’m about 250 short for my rent this month. It’s a mess. But it is what it is. At least my landlord is cool and will let me pay on the 15th.

July 4, 2008

I didn’t know you lived in Europe! That must have been exciting. I hope your financial situation gets better and you’re able to move out of your mom’s. That’s f*cked up she opened your mail.

July 5, 2008

Mixed relationships are more common in Europe and overlooked as well, and I think that it’s horrible that you come back to the states and get the dirty looks ect…We are in the 20th century, all modern and stuff and yet some people still think it’s wrong..ugh and yeah, the dirty looks from the black men just make me fall over laughing…I dated a good friend of mine AJ for a while and his familytook me right in, but we would all be hanging out, and there was always a dirty look somewhere, usually from a white man..didn’t help we were in Dothan Alabama, aka…the butt crack of rednecktivity…Anyway, my point is you go girl…and yah, I think 2pac is living on an island somewhere, lol!!

July 5, 2008

RYN: yeah it’s in denton, in fact it’s right across the street from where i live now.