Acting like Morons’…

That’s what Michael said my family is acting like, i guess i haven been, but, i just want things to be equally decided between my sisters and i, and i dont feel that my brother in law should have butted his nose into this, if he would have kept his mouth shut there would be no hard feelings..

My brother in laws mother called to weiss (the place where my sister works and where my brother worked for a time), she demanded to know what they were going to send my family for Mikey and Holly ( food flowers ect), i about died when i found out, my step father told me, so, i called to the store and apologized and let them know that the person who called earlier was not involved with my family and that we were all embaressed because that had happened..

I called my step father about the dinner after the funeral, i wanted to have it at the house, well, there wasnt enough room, so len decided to ask about the fire hall, so he called his girlfriend and fot the hall for 75 dollars, great, right?? no, now my older sister is having a fit because she told everyone to bring food to her house and she refuses to come on saturday to the dinner!! *sigh* first of all, her house is way to small, she has rabbits living inside her home, like 2 or 3 cages, she has 2 little dogs running around, no one would be able to move!! and if your allergic to animals your out of luck! i think the right thing to do was rent a hall and have everyone come there for the dinner, but, hey, if she chooses not to, that will make her look bad..

I found out yesterday that because my brother wasnt registered at the church they wont let us have his funeral there!! i called the priest, unfortunately he is out of town, so i asked the secretary, she assured me she didnt think that was the case, but, al i know is my brother cannot have his funeral at the church he went to all his life! im just dumbfounded!!! then i found out that my brother is being cremated, and that cold be a reason that the catholics wont acknowledge it as a catholic funeral..

everything is going wrong, this isnt the way family is supposed to act, i never got along with my sister or brother in law, but, i held my tongue for as long as i could, i believe that mikey wouldnt want them taking over the planning of his funeral, i think he would want it the way we are planning it now..

I called my cousin Jane, actually i talked to her sisters answering machine, i let them know that both Holy and i would like Jane to do mikeys funeral, Tina went ahead and contacted the priest who refuses to let him have the funeral in the church, well, i was of course, seeing red, and contacted jane and val. we will probably talk about it tonight, because tonight is the veiwing..

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