the talks

so i went to my sisters house yesterday and we had a great talk… i told her how i want to talk to my mom and she told me how her talk with my mom went… (they are currently not speaking to each other). it really made me think… do i want to talk to my mom… she is so set in her ways and just thnks she has all of the answers and that because she iis the mom that gives a right to disrespect people or treat me and my sister differently…i dont agree… she is an adult and so are we and we should be treated accordingly… irregardless of if she is our mother or not she has no right to disrespect us… it just makes me so mad that she thinks she can do things just because she is our mother… somethings yes she can do but others no way…

for example…my sister got upset and hung up in my mothers face… she clled back to apologize and my mom was like i never thought in amillion years my own daughter would hang up inmy face, and my sister was like you hang up i my face all thetime what does that mean… then my mom was like i am your mother i can hang up in your face if i want to… and blah blah blah… i was just like this woman is crazy… she thinks she has most if not all of the answers… i mean just because you have been a certain age doesnt mean thing are the same… she experienced different emtions she thought differently and society was definitely different… she claims those differences are not that great… i beg to differ…  she just bothers me… her frame of mind bothers me… its crazy… she preaches so much but doesnt lead by example… it kills me sometimes… and she yells… cant she just speak like a normal human being…

who knows… after that talk with my sister i thinki am going to have to write my mom a letter so she cant yell and so that i can get out all of my feelings before she has a chance to interrupt me…