Victim

Dictionary.com says that a "victim" is: a person who suffers from a destructive or injurious action or agency.

I am not, nor will I ever allow myself to be, a victim.

I will not suffer from destructive and injurious actions or agencies.

I will not be beaten down.

I will not wallow.

I will not ever allow myself to be anything other than a Survivor.

Survivor: a person who continues to function or prosper in spite of opposition, hardship, or setbacks.

I will prosper. Bring on the opposition.