flu-ick

Ok, officially and without any doubt, the flu sucks ass.

 

I was out of work yesterday with it. I woke up about 5a.m. and hauled ass to the bathroom… well, you can get the gist of that. That went on for about 8 hours, then just absolute exhaustion. Unfortunately, the baby was home with me, so I didn’t sleep a ton. She’d decided to wake up quietly and play in her poo diaper AGAIN. Ugh. Anyone have any suggestions on how to successfully prevent her doing this. We’ve tried it all. We change her as soon as she wakes up or poos b/c we know she hates it. We never put her to bed without an onesie and pants. There are 2 or 3 onesies that she can’t unfasten but the rest she can get out of. One she can even take the diaper off UNDER it without unfastening it. She can get out of her sleepers. She gets ‘in trouble’ for it, every time. And she just plays in it. Yesterday it was in her hair, her eyebrows, under her fingernails. It was beyond disgusting. It’s the rotavirus waiting to happen. I’m surprised she hasn’t gotten really ill, yet. So, here I was, almost violently ill, trying to hose off (in the tub) a poopy baby, clean up her sheets and bed, and running back and forth to the toilet.

It. Was. Not. A. Pleasant. Day.

But I’m feeling mostly better today. I’ve got a case of muscle aches and a little bit of a growly tummy, but all in all, I’m doing alright. I think I’ll be popping a couple ibuprofen pretty soon to ease some of the lower back aches. Those are the hardest b/c I sit at a computer all day. I should make Joe rub my back tonight.

 

On a weirder note:

 

We just got word, via myspace of all things, that Joe’s little brother has joined the US Army. *sigh* Not that I don’t think this is a noble choice, and not that I don’t think the military could do this boy/man a world of good as far as helping him to rearrange his priorities and responsibilities (he has 2 kids and no job), but egads (!) to have made this choice off the cuff and without talking, at least, to your brothers. I’m just worried about him. And I’m worried about Joe. He’s doing okay, I think, but I could see him being really upset about this. Phil is his BABY brother (he’s 20) and has had a pretty rough life already. He’s been in and out of jail and trouble, plus, a horrible baby-mama-drama situation. Plus, he’s not held a job for more than a couple months at a time. He’s a great guy, and very intelligent, but I think he’s always been afraid of being that. He wants to ‘fit in’ with other people his age, but having kids has changed that ability and he hasn’t figured it out yet. So he still drinks and smokes and ‘smokes’ and parties and goes to strip clubs. His parents (or hers) have their 2 sons (under 2 yrs old) every weekend and they party. Then they come borrowing money for milk or formula or diapers. They’ve alienated most of the family with their constant lying and manipulating. But, he’s still Joe’s brother. And that makes him mine, too. And I already have one brother on the other side of the world fighting in this war; I hate the idea of having another. So, I’m sad.

But at least I’m not puking, right. 🙂 Oh well. I should probably go do some work.

Peace. (LOL)

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March 19, 2008

The fear of having a loved one fighting a war on the other side of the world is something I can’t relate to, but it sounds scary and very frightening, so I hope he does well and learns a thing or two about responsibility, as you said. Also, I hope you feel better soon! Having to clean all that poo up musta been hellish! LOL But I’ve got no advice on keeping her outta it!

Oh, love. That’s just a bunch of hard all around. And I’m glad you survived yesterday. (I’d suggest duct tape – and that may make it obvious I’ve never had kids. 😉 Love and hugs, sweets! [Syd, I just realized I’m not signed in]

March 19, 2008

LOL I was just coming to say the same thing! HAHA Duct tape is something I remember my mom telling me she’d do with us, just to keep me and my sisters out of it when we were little. I’d forgotten about that till just now. Dunno if I’d try it though!

March 26, 2008

I hope your flu is long gone by now. I meant to stop by sooner and thank you for your note. I’m slow at everything right now 🙁 I think it’s great your parents are thinking about fostering dogs. It’s hard because of the attachment formed, but it is so wonderful for the dogs to get out of those cages at the shelter. Your parents sound very cool 🙂 Hugs,

April 8, 2008

btw – duct tape does work…you had it a few times when you were a baby.. lol.. but then you were potty trained before you were even a year old.. lol.. my mother did that part for me… D will be alright, I think he made a wise and noble decision.. and he has to go it alone, so makes sense that he had to make the decision alone.. I am just sry that the family is hurting from it.. luv you

May 17, 2008

I haven’t figured out the poop thing ether… mine eats hers and then pukes. The army, it is a wonderful solution for many a people, I miss my husband being in, and my best friend is still in. It can be upsetting, but who knows he could get in with other dads and combine it with disciple and maybe it will be alright.