Explanation

Ok, so, I’ve been going thru a ton of crap lately. To the point of, if I wasnt living it I would believe it was fiction. Ok I’ll start with the wedding. I have a "friend" who is getting married on aug 14th. She asked me to be a bride’s maid and help her plan. I of course said yes. I have been through a lot with this girl. When she was pregnant with her youngest the baby daddy didnt claim him and she was unemployed so me, my hubby, and another friend of mine all went in together and bought her everything the baby would need for the first six months. So last weekend after all the planning is almost done she calls and wants to come hang out on tuesday. I said sure. Well then I get this text from another girl wanting to know if she can come over too. This girl I dont like so much. We let her live with us for about 4 months. She did not help clean she did not cook I cleaned up after her and her 18 month old. And she didnt work so she didnt pay rent. She broke my couch. Then when she finally got a job I was keeping her little boy for her so she woudnt have to pay day care and could get her own place quicker. Well she got her own place. Her schedule was 7am-330 pm. Her son had the runs all day. I wound up having to go out and buy a whole new pack of diapers because he was pooping so much. Well 6 in the evening comes and she is still nowhere to be found so I left her little boy with my hubby so I could take my 2 oldest girls to their aunts because they were going out of town with her the next morning. I changed the little boys diaper right before I left so I know he was clean. About 615 I got a call from my hubby saying the girls boyfriend and come to get the kid. about thirty minutes after that I get a message from the girls saying her son had a poopy butt and an unbelievable rash and she is taking him to the police station and having jeff arrested for child abuse because she was trying to say he hadnt been changed all day. So I told her when she sent the police out I could let them take all the dirty diapers with them. So anyway, back to the original story. she asked if she could come over. I said it prob wouldnt be a good idea because the hubby is home and i didnt want any friction. Well, I guess I should explain that the girl is now dating the  brother of the friend thats getting married. So she calls my friend and tells her i said she’s not welcome in my house blah blah blah. Because, ya know, I just love behaving like we are in jr high. Well after I put out all my time and energy planning a bachelorette party and all that it is decided they arent gonna have one here they are just gonna go out and eat and a VERY expensive restaurant which I can’t afford. Then the next day I was asked to step down from the bridal party because the girl felt like she should be in the wedding since she was dating the brother of the groom. This really hurt my feelings. So I changed my rsvp. I changed it because I knew there would be drama and that isnt what anyones wedding day should be about. So, they all did their childish crap and while I was in the er saturday started blasting all kinds of crap about me on fb and blah blah blah. Well the first time I went to hospital tuesday the dumb dr told me to stop taking my bipolar meds. I did. So come saturday when all this was going down I was not feeling so hot. I was throwing up, sweating to the point that I was soaking my clothes, but wearing a sweater and shaking like I was freezing. I had lost all feeling in my right foot and couldnt stop crying. On my first and 2nd er visit they did nothing. gave me pain pills and take me off my meds. so I went to a better hospital and they did an mri and found out I have two herniated discs and need to see a spine specialist. So that afternoon I was mega bitch. I was upset about my "friend" and feeling like crap and in tons of pain. So he made some comment about just letting it go it wasnt worth it. So, I went off! I told him to leave I wanted a divorce. Well, we finally sorted things out like 2 days later and i went to my reg dr and come to find out they should not have taken off my bipolar meds and the other symptoms other than the pain we me going through withdrawls (sp?) Well, that is my crazy story for this month