you’ll never believe it! (sorry its so long)

Yesterday was one of the worst days I have ever had in my life! The hubby and I got into it almost before i even woke up if thats even possible. So I start getting ready for work while muttering under my breath about him. Get out the door stop at mcdonalds to get a caffeine fix and a biscuit (yes I know…not good for the weightloss dont judge me) The hooker at the window tries to give me crap about only paying for a coffee I was like umm no I did not just pay like 6 bucks for only a coffee are you kidding me. So she gives me a bag as I’m going down the rd i reach in the bag and she just threw it in there no wrapper or anything so its all jumbled up in the bag egg and cheese everywhere. So, get to work and my second house of the day was OMG dirty. I literally had to pick up the junk for like 2 hours before I could even begin to actually clean and disinfect everything. Not to mention this is my lowest paid house. So, after work my business partner/friend and I decide to take the kids to the pool the next town over because the one in our town doesnt have a water slide and the other one does. So my son cant find his swim trunks so I had him throw on some athletic shorts. At the pool in our town it would be perfectly acceptable to do so as long as they arent denim or cutoff with fringe they are allowed. Well, we get to the pool the guy looks the kids over asks them their ages takes our money we go in. Everyone takes their shoes off hands me their towels and gets ready to get in the pool. as they are about to get in the lifeguard tells my son he is not allowed to swim because his shorts are not swim trunks. he comes over to talk to me so I asked why the guy at the front said they were allowed and took my money. He said he didnt know but I was more than welcome to go up front and ask for my money back. So the kids start getting dressed and we are getting our stuff together with them all 4 crying their eyes out. in the middle of getting everything together 2 of the male employees of the pool come over and say that they dont want a problem I was asked to leave and I need to do so. Well, that got me riled up because I was TRYING to leave. So I told them to get out of my face and I would leave as soon as i got my childrens things together. They told me not to cause a scene. I said I am not the one causing a scene leave us the *f* alone and we will go. So I go up front and tell the guy I need my money back because we werent allowed to swim. he tells me know I should have read the sign before I paid. I said well you should have told me when you seen what he was wearing so he tells me he’s not giving my money back but he would call the park ranger if I needed to be shown to my car. So I said *f* it you guys arent worth a simple $20 and we went to the car. We left and got about 10 miles away and I see blue lights behind me. I’m upset and crying and thought I was speeding so I pull over and guess who it is….the park ranger!!!!!!! They had taken my license plate and gave it to him to hunt me down. so he comes up to the window and starts with this long ass speech that I had already heard from the pool people, I said sir I really dont appreciate being harrassed. He said how am i harrassing you isaid you pulled me over for no reason I left when I was asked to. I will admit I was extremely upset and it was not nearly that clean when I said it but I felt bullied and picked on. I just wanted to get my kids to the pool in our town before they closed.  so he tells me not to say cuss words and I said I’ll say whatever I want to say I’m in my van that I pay for and just trying to get home. so he says he needs my license to fill out a report. I gave it to him like 20 minutes later he comes back with my license in his hand and asked if I was gonna calm my attitude down. I said I’ll calm my attitude down when I’m allowed to go home can I have my license back so I can do that. I was extremely hateful but oh well. He jerked my license away from me and told me no I could not leave until my attitude was right. I told him once again I was allowed to have whatever attitude I wanted it was america. so he told me not to go anywhere and sat back in his car for about 15 more minutes. He came back and told me if I refused to apologize he would arrest me in front of my children. I said I absolutely would not apologize for being upset. He said i need to apologize for saying *f* I said do you know why I say *f* be cause I *f-ing* can so he told me once again not to leave still has my license in his hand. finally he comes back and says the sherrifs dept is too busy to pick me up i have to turn myself in before midnight or i would be arrested with a 1000 dollar bond. So i call the hubby he meets me down there. They book me and after reviewing it they had no reason to hold me because no warrant was issued or going to be issued. So after all that my question is…can I do anything about being treated like that????