Pass the Control, please
No, I don’t throw up. But hey, that doesn’t stop me attempting to do so (again) by wretching over the toilet bowl.
Yes, I ate food. And no, it wasn’t only a little amount.
Of course this means I can’t go to either of my doctor appointments this week.
Why? I’m too fat of course. I ate food, I became disgusting and vile, and I can’t set foot in any waiting room for any treatment for anorexia. Because I’m way too fat, now.
I’m a fat anorexic (again).
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Conversation between Elizabeth and ED, earlier today.
Elizabeth: I don’t really want to eat chocolate cookies for breakfast.
ED: Too bad, I think you’ll feel better if you have them, and heck EVERYONE is telling you that you need to put energy and calories in your body so go ahead.
Elizabeth: Okay.
(eats cookies)
Elizabeth: I don’t feel any better.
ED: Okay, well then have 5 pieces of toast with half a block of cheese.
Elizabeth: Are you kidding?
ED: Of course not. Don’t you trust me?
Elizabeth (thinking): not really, no.
ED: Just do it.
Elizabeth: Okay. (maybe it will make me feel better).
(Eats bread and cheese.)
Elizabeth: I don’t feel so good.
ED: Well don’t blame me.
Elizabeth: I’m not. I’m just saying how I feel!
ED: Well you seem wayward to me. I think you need to get a hold of yourself. Go and watch some TV and make plans for exercise. Just get out of the kitchen if you feel tempted.
Elizabeth: Okay.
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Elizabeth: Pass the control, please.
ED: You must be joking. The control belongs to me.
Elizabeth: That’s why I have you! With you I have control. But lately you seem to be jerking me around.
ED: You choose your own actions, don’t blame me. I offer you the control but then you blame me for not giving it to you.
Elizabeth: You don’t give me control! You give me false promises.
ED: That’s bullshit. You know if you just behaved and abstained from eating and the absolute digusting gluttony you are partaking in, you would have the perfect control. I have shown you that.
Elizabeth: I’m confused. All I know is I feel like absolute shit, physically and emotionally, and listening to you all day hasn’t helped.
ED: Well that’s your own fault. You’re weak. You ate food.
Elizabeth: You told me to!
ED: Hmm, well you didn’t have to do it. And I just offered some ideas, I never told you to be such a disgusting pig.
Elizabeth: Leave me alone.
ED: Wihout me you are so much less of anything desirable- , you know you need me.
Elizabeth: Yes I know.
ED: I think you’ll feel a bit better if you ate some of that chocolate (and I know you’ll eat the whole block). Go on, then after all this you can purify again.
Elizabeth: Okay.
Elizabeth: I feel absolutely horrible now. And so wasted, sleep wise. I wish I didn’t have to take sleeping tablets everynight.
ED: So get yourself together, and we’ll find the path again. I’ll give you another chance.
Elizabeth: I feel so sick
ED: I know. YOu need to do better next time. Or you WILL become fat. Eating like you did today.
Elizabeth:I just want to feel okay. And not like I’m spinning out of control. With so much disgust and loneliness inside of me.
Yes, I’ve been there…I’m STILL there…why must it be so hard…
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Elizabeth, please go to your doctor’s appointments. You will never get better otherwise. If you must, just go and apologise for wasting their time. But please go. We can’t help you over the internet – doctors can.
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I agree with Princess. You want to know why you binged? Because your body is starving. You can’t control the binging when you starve yourself. You need to be seeing a Doctor and a Nutritionist regularly, Elizabeth.
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Try to remember that you’re doing much better now. I know its hard. But you’re physically being healthier. You’re also healthier emotionally (apart from ED) So the goal now is just to put it all together. The building blocks are all there…..
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YEA MY ED’S A B*TCH TOO GOD I HATE HER. LOL I HAVE THAT CONVERSATION EVERY DAY WITH HER. SHE SUCKS. GOOD LUCK. YOU CAN DO ANYTHING. I BELIEVE IN YOU. <3 TESSA
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princess said it. xox *~
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wow, you talk to ed too? …. i sometimes feel like im too fat to have an ed “voice” (really they’re just thoughts) … what am i saying? I AM TOO FAT TO HAVE AN ED VOICE … im just crazy … take care hun, and please go to your doctor’s appointment, maybe they can help you … be safe xoxox
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yep. you’re from OZ. i thought i read that you were going to stop writing in here.. maybe ages ago as i haven’t been still shadows for maybe 2and a half years… i had to “lose” that diary though. take care. xxx
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