That’s just how they are

I am so tired of people making excuses for other people’s behavior.  If someone shows their ass, and others notice and comment, “well, that’s just how they are”, aren’t you enabling them to continue to behave that way?

I want someone to comment “that’s how wonderful that person is”, not have all this toxic crap in my life

It’s definitely making me rethink my friendships, who I have in my circle.  People who are just allowed to behave badly are toxic and I am so done with toxic in my life