Why are guys sooo shallow and such big A**holes???
Ok so I was talking to people on my facebook and one I hadn’t talked to in forever. The conversation was going ok until he called me a prude and then just got off. I knew he was calling me that just because the few times I hung out w/him I didn’t have sex with him. I don’t get why that’s the only thing guys seem to want or care about. It kinda pissed me off because I don’t consider myself a prude. I’m not a whore and not going to sleep with every guy I know. I love my daughter, but don’t want another one anytime soon and I’m not like that anyways. I have to actually like a guy and know them awhile before I even think about doing that with them. Then I have another guy I know who likes this chick and all, but he won’t date her because she’s kinda on the chubby side. I just don’t get why looks should matter. To a small extent I can understand, but it annoys me when that’s all guys or even girls care about. I guess people in general tend to piss me off lol. At least they do when all they care about is money, sex, and how they appear to everyone else. I honestly don’t care about money or looks or even what people think about me anymore. I figured true friends will care about me for who I am and if others don’t like me then that’s fine. I got tired of trying to be something I’m not just to try and make people like me and I’m done with that. I honestly don’t care what people think about me and I think some people hate me because of that since they think I should care what they think and I don’t. Besides there’s no way to get everyone to like you.
so tru
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I honestly don’t care what people think about me and I think some people hate me because of that since they think I should care what they think and I don’t. If you really didn’t care, you wouldn’t be writing about it. Right? Just sayin. “I don’t care” is just the fashionable way to deny what you’re really feeling…and well, since ya already wrote out what you were feelin, it’s kindaclosing the barn door after the horse escaped. 😉 Then I have another guy I know who likes this chick and all, but he won’t date her because she’s kinda on the chubby side. I used to be on the losing end of the “superficiality” equation…and it used to piss me off too, that I wouldn’t get the time of day from most girls cause I was “ugly”. You know what I realized? That’s their choice and their right. Just like I won’t date a girl who’s dumb as a box of rocks, no matter how good-looking she is. Is that just as much “discrimination” as not dating someone who’s unattractive or overweight? Damn skippy it is. And it’s my right, too. Thing is we all want what we want, and we all have our priorities…that’s all there is to it. Ya know?
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I think guys are just naturally more stupid/instinct driven. Speaking from experience it takes a good deal of logic/care/self-control to not be stupid in multiple ways. I certainly don’t succeed all the time, but I try not to go around humping women’s legs. And it seems that most guys aren’t necessarily that bright… Hopefully you can find some guys that are a bit higher up the foodchain… (:
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It’s the way men are hard wired. It’s in our programming. Sex, that is. Procreation. Animal instinct. Basically, we can’t help it. And we get a rash of shit for it. What should we do, castrate ourselves? By the way, not all guys are shallow or assholes. For the love of God, put the word “some” in front of your insult. Of course looks matter. Anyone who wants to say they don’t is fooling themselves. Initial attraction is by looks. So of course we all want to be attractive and look for other attractive individuals. Shallow as it may be, it’s human nature as as it is in the animal kingdom. Some species of female animals make themselves look attractive to the males so they can procreate. So the males can do what they’re programmed to do. Sort of like human males. Because we’re all just animals. We got handed emotions on top of it, worst thing to ever happen because irrational emotions simply f*ck everything up. I bitched a blue streak about generalizations like yours in an entry I just wrote. Was happy to not have stumbled across one today until right now. It never ends.
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