Neding to Vent……

So I’m still having problems with my friend (talked about it in last entry). I still have to always call him if I want to talk because he never calls or texts me anymore, he never has any time for me anymore, and I can’t rely on him anymore. We’ve hung out twice since he started dating this girl and it’s because both times I called to see what he was doing and both times it was because his g.f. had other things to do. I’m pretty sure that if she wasn’t busy he would have been doing something with her instead. I was hoping this would all blow over after awhile and that he was just acting this way because it was a new relationship, but now it’s just really really annoying the crap out of me. I can’t decide whether or not I want to stop being friends with him. We’ve been friends for almost 5 years now, I believe, and have been really good friends actually. I don’t know if I want some girl ruining it. At the same time as mentioned before he never has any time for me anymore, we never hang out or talk, I always have to call or text him and he really doesn’t talk to me much then either, and I can’t count on him. One time he told my best friend and me both that if we ever had any problems with a guy not treating us right that we could call him, but apparently that’s not true anymore. I got into a bad fight with the guy was dating and he hit me. I tried calling my friend but of course he didn’t answer his phone at all during the whole ten times I called him. I usually don’t even call someone twice in a row, but I really needed to talk and I needed a ride home. I even left a message and he didn’t call me back until two days later. To me that’s just not acceptable when someone leaves a message like that and then to not return it for 2 days. I know he’s not busy except for w/his g.f. He doesn’t have a job, he doesn’t go to school, he just spends all his time with her. As I said in my previous entry I’m not jealous. I don’t think of him that way, but I don’t like being treated like crap. Part of me just wants to tell him that I no longer want to stay friends with him because of things previously mentioned and the other part doesn’t really want to let go b/c we did have a good friendship going on before this chick he started dating. I met her too and she seems really cool and she likes me so I don’t think it’s her telling him not to hang out with me. I think it’s just him because that’s how he was with his last g.f. too. He never really spent any time with me or talked to me and I hate it. I don’t want him to be my "friend" only when he’s single. I think he should still treat me with respect and stuff even when he’s with someone. I just don’t know what to do. I also needed to vent about my relationship. I don’t know where things went wrong. I don’t know if I did or said something wrong, but he doesn’t seem to want to talk to me much or hang out much either. It’s a different guy than the one that hit me because once that happens I end it. I’m not going to put up with that. this is a guy I have known for awhile though. We dated a few years ago and he dumped me over the phone the day before my birthday to get back with his ex. I hated him for the longest time, but then I finally forgave him. We’ve been good friends since then. He wanted to give it another try and I came to have feelings for him again so I did too. But it’s like ever since we made it official (since we kinda acted like we were together even though officially we weren’t a couple) he doesn’t seem to have any time for me whereas before he had lots of time. He’s the one that even said he wanted me to be his girl and for us to be together as a couple and didn’t want me dating anyone else. I just don’t get it. Guys confuse me. I just don’t know what I should do with either of them.