07/07/2010
The last few days it feels like we are just there….its been too hot to do much. We have a/c in the bedrooms but not downstairs and that’s were we we’ve been spending the days and then going to my parents for a dip in the pool which is a little back feeling good as its warm too….but still enjoyable.
I have had to wait getting my license for CRT as I’ve had to wait 2 business days and with July 4th its put it off. But most of its done but htat part. The parks program is going on and Andrew is enjoying his time over there and not in front of the TV set so I’m happy about that. What happened to finding people on the street to play with and spending all day outside…now it seems like they need help doing that. Then again my street needs some help in that dept. There’s now only a few kids and I don’t like them…..
Then there’s the park …..in the morning you get the good people. The SAHM moms with there little ones and keeping a good eye on there kids. There might be the usual rift raft hanging out under the pavilion which is no where near the play ground even in the morning. GOOD. Well as the day goes by then you get the older kids and the crappy lousy parents. So one of the hot days we went to the playground. They have the spray park there so I thought I would let them cool down before settling in for the night. Niether one wanted to go on the spray park but play on the playground. Jonathan can do a ton by himself now there including going on the slides. I still watch him like a hawk as he sometime tries things that are a little over his head. They put the bridge back up as it was broken at the begining of summer so watching him is a little harder. I saw him head for the slide and had to duck under something to get to him. When I got there this one little boy was right behind him on the slide as he was getting ready to go down. The boy was 3 at the most 4. Well he kicked Jonathan as he wasn’t going down fast enough and I was PISSED!!! Didn’t help I was hot and Okay a little PMS action going on. I screamed at him you don’t kick anyone!! YOu know better than that. There were kids on the slide and they were telling me you can’t yell at him like that. We are going to tell his mother on you. The boy was in tears. Oh crap, I thought to myself, I know what I’m going to be dealing with I know these type of shitty parents. They (the 4-5 other kids watching this mocking me) are going to get the mother whom is going to come down here with the rest of the groups parents and chastise me for making their little boy cry. You know you can’t yell at my kid speech and knowing its them against me. The Moody hot PMS in me was ready to fight. Fine I said Where is your Mother I want to see her right NOW!! I Screamed at him…..he’s still sobbing. He points to the pavilion. It might as well be on another planet as its not near the playground. We march up there with the rest of the little brats entow . I then confront the mother and screamed at her for what he did and all she told him was not to kick babies. I wanted to punch her but restrained. I left soon after and was pissed that I went there in the evening.
I know little Jonathan could have taken him….LOL he knocked down one of Andrew’s cousins on the 4th during a picnic as they were wrestling each other and he was 4. He wrestles Andrew all the time, he’s very tough. But still you don’t mess with my baby.
You know I hate parents who dont keep an eye on their kids. I would have said something about her only saying we dont kick babies. Um is it ok to kick others then?!? Ugh hate that! RYN I dont mind being with my girls, but at times I need to get out and have adult convo. To read what some of the girls on my message board were saying made it 90 times worse. My MIL wont take them all, she cant
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deal with them all. She has no patients, that is why she had her kids 17 yrs apart! She was bad when I was in labor and poor Kota was having issues. She didnt even know her as she never came around, no one but Chris or I was with her at night time. She was down right dumb and it pissed me off. My mom ahs her own issues and to be honest I dont think she could do them all together. I think
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she would be fine with the older two or the younger two. But not all three she has no patients at all these days either!
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RYN: the potted plants are coming along well and so is the lettuce it’s everything else in the garden that’s in the ground that’s not doing wel….radishes that should have been picked by now are not round and they are suppose to be. carrots aren’t doing anything and the cucumbers are slow as is the loofah….it all LOOKS good but it’s sad looking in comparision to where it should be.
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