Vent

This is a major vent. About my mother in law again. No matter what Chris says, I can’t vent to him about her, because he is BLIND to it. She treats him like a slave, is unappreciative of the work he does for her, and he doesn’t see it.

My first bitch is about wrapping Christmas presents. I bought all that new paper for wrapping because I thought Sandra would appreciate some new papers. NOPE. So I’ll use it to wrap the presents for here.

My second bitch is her lying to my face. She said she loved the way I decorated the house with the Christmas decor. Well now she’s trying to passively change things around to the way she wants them. She’s a complete control freak. Next year I will not be laying out the Christmas decorations. She can do it herself. I know she has breathing problems, but placing a few Christmas decorations aren’t going to send her into a tailspin of breathing problems. She’s lazy, and uses it as an excuse at times. Like getting her own ice for her drink. She can walk her ass to the kitchne and back when no one is home just fine, but suddenly when we’re home, she’s incapable.

She is seriously on my last nerve lately, and Chris defending her actions doesn’t help. I’m very ready to be the woman of the house, and run things the way CHRIS and I want, together, in unity. Not the way one person wants things. No one else has a say in this house, even though we are all adults.

The closer Chris and I become, the more it seems she’s tries to push inbetween us. I hate dreaming of when Chris and I have a place to our own, because I know that means his parents will be gone. I love them, and I love her, but I want my husbansd attention too.

On top of that my grandma is laying a guilt trip on me because I haven’t emailed or written, or called in forever. I’m just so busy, and they live so far away.