I’ve been thrown away by my biological family twice now
I have been thrown away by my biological family twice now.
This happened maybe two months ago. Things were going well, then Cherryl just blocked me on facebook and stopped answering my calls.
Lynda decided to send me a message saying “You’re a scammer! Goodbye!” before blocking me.
Neither one asked any questions or gave me a chance to defend myself. When I asked Nicole to pass a message onto them how hurt I was and how morally wrong they were to act that way.
Nicole went on to defend them saying how I have to understand how someone claiming to be their dead brother’s son is hard for them.
When I pointed out that it wasn’t my claim, it was a DNA match with Kathryn; and others, with Kathryn, then put the pieces together figuring out where I fit in the family.
Up until I spoke with Cherry, I was convinced it was my mother’s side of the family.
Honestly, I got what I wanted; I know who my father is; he wasn’t listed on my birth information, and have a few photos and stories of him and my biological family.
It hurt a lot; at the same time, I had another friend throw our friendship away over a misunderstanding.
This is the first time I have said it out loud or written it down. Now I’m just really disappointed.
It’s not as if I want anything from them; I retired at 40, achieved almost all my dreams. One of them was to find out more about my biological family – accomplished.
Fuck them. It’s their loss.
On the good news side, Tigger so far has not had an adverse reaction to her kidney medication. It’s the same medication that nearly killed Medhia.
I saw some pictures of Medhia the other day, and she was so cute. Maybe I’ll add one as a featured image. Okay, I did, but I used one I had already uploaded.
My new morale patches just arrived; haha Cat Shit One – funny animated series, time to stick them on things.
My siblings put me down for my DNA findings (that their father was not mine, despite his name on my birth certificate). I was called liar and accused of spending money on deliberately false DNA. People get upset if their take on reality is shaken or challenged.
@snarkle You are correct. What you wrote is one of the excuses given for why I was thrown out like garbage.
There is another version I have heard where one of them was hacked, and thought I was the hacker.
However, that doesn’t make sense as they contacted me, and it was long before the alleged hack which took place on foreign soil.
@axalotal being targeted like this never makes sense. Jealousy and a need to finger point never makes sense. But I hear you and I walk beside you.
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I am terribly sorry that your biological family rejected you. I also am going to email you over something else you wrote. The pic of Medhia is so sweet.
I am glad Tigger isn’t reacting badly to the medication~~!!!!!!!
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