I’m tired of the type relationship questions

Personality is only an influence in as much as subjective preferences are relevant – which is beyond the scope of the MBTI – As Jung himself said "this is only a method to explain the lay-man to his lay-wife". In the context of defining "Successful relationship" in the colloquial sense, one that is complimentary and not self defeating requires the cornerstone of maturity – to understand when an action is appropriate and when it is not, this transcends personality type.

This is the true question, not some logomachy as to which subjective symbol better suites a made up "match of personalities".