So you want to help those in need, good!

So you want to help those in need, good!
1. The thing that best helps the poor and those in need is the wealth of a nation.
2. Private charities are more efficient than government programs.
3. Stealing someone’s money to give it to someone else is still theft.

What I don’t understand is the manner people who seek to justify the state, use philanthropic reasons for aggressing on other non-violent individuals, but at the core of the argument, there is the self defeating clause that you must condone aggression on peaceful individuals.