about vacation…

Vacation is good for numerous things, but for me … sex and actually writing here!

I don’t even know the last time I had this much sex, at least once a day every day this week.. and yesterday twice! Whoa. It’s weird to be happy about something like that but it’s true.. I am lovin’ every minute.. Even if deep down I am hoping it will get me pregnant.. I think Brandon has probably caught on, but I am just trying to enjoy it..

And today.. I am SORE. My side is sore, my body is sore from laughing/drinking last night.. It’s been a pretty good vacation now that Brandon is over his moody-man-ness

My friend Laura and her husband are in an open relationship. They have sexual relationships outside of their marriage which to me is.. weird. Why even get married? They aren’t religious, so I don’t really understand. Maybe I am a prude? I married Brandon because I wanted to be with HIM for the rest of my life.

I asked Laura loads of questions about it, because that’s just who I am as a person. blunt, and honest about my feelings..

Like.. how do you chose, what about stds and babies, how are you not jealous or think about what your husband is thinking about while he makes love to YOU .. I just couldn’t do it. I don’t share well.

She said they had a threesome and have had TWO relationships outside of their marriage. That just about blew my mind.. Seriously. We are going to chat on the phone tomorrow and she said she is going to answer all my questions..
She is living is salt lake city right now, kinda the opposite thing you would think is happening there.. haha.

Well I am going to go take my kiddo outside.. MIL bought him a swingset, a METAL one, so I won that arguement.. It’s pretty fabulous though. But with all the toys in the yard Cooper always goes for the little coupe car.. haha. everytime.