February 10, 2013

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I feel like writing about it, but the right words just aren’t coming out. But still I really have to let this out so here it is: I feel really alone. Nothing more to say about it really, I just feel alone. I can’t explain it, it’s the most difficult kind of loneliness. I have my mom, my sister, my cat and two friends who don’t even put the effort to cheer me up when they see me sad. All the rest are just shallow friendships, with a hello and goodbye, but no good or serious talks, going out together and having fun,.. And the problem is my expectations are so high and I feel like I need to have lots of friends – again to make myself feel loved – it’s probably a stupid thing to the rest, but I can’t help it, I just feel alone very easily and I don’t know what to do about it. I’d be feeling a lot better already if there would be someone having the same issues like me, even better: knowing what to do about it. That seriously could solve a lot of percents of my problems.

A Simple girl

February 11, 2013

I feel the same way.. I am also looking forward for the notes on this entry.

ElvenAssassin

I’m twice your age, and I feel just as lonely. A lot of that is by my own making. When people say “love yourself first” they mean like the good things about you. Eat healthy, even when you don’t feel like it. Find a hobby. Write, draw…. cycle around your neighbourhood. Those are the easiest things to do at your age. Take up archery. Waterpolo. A hobby is the best thing.If you go out and socialize doing something you like, then you will meet like-minded people. People that will truly be interested in you because they have something passionate in common. Having school buddies because you’re stuck in the same chemistry class is not passion. That’s how you connect, and make good connections… find something you love and find people to share it with.

WakingDreamer

I grew up feeling lonely & like I was always on the outside looking in. They were beyond some glass wall & I couldn’t touch them. They couldn’t reach me. I was never close to my Close friends. My best friends didn’t know me. I was alone. Now? I have people I talk to, laugh with, am “friends” with, Only 1 or two I call close & want to be around. I love being with me. Loneliness is distant past.