oy vey, relationship survey… lol

before i post this survey, i just left this note, and i think its very important for people to read:

"Learning to be yourself is one of the hardest things a person will ever have to do in their life."  what with how much media distorts people’s perception of reality, how can you be yourself when no one else is?!  *shrugs* maybe its just me, but i think people are more interesting when they are themselves and not what they think other people want them to be.

granted… i guess i could take a page out of that book sometimes.  but for the most part, i’m set in who i am. (it gets me into trouble sometimes though… lol)

anyway, on to the survey!

General Stuff
Are you in a relationship at the moment?
yup!

How long have you been together?
um… 2 months, 13 days, 11 hours and 20 minutes? but… who’s counting.  <.< >.>

Is it a serious or casual relationship?
serious. 

How did you meet?
actually, i haven’t told you all this yet (although i think some of you have figured it out) we met on here over a year ago.

Are you the same age?
no.

If not, how much older or younger are they?
she’s 6 years younger.  (at least she’s of drinking age… lol)

Do you see yourself dating this person a month from now?
yes, very much so.

A year?
*nods* 🙂

Five years?
i certainly hope so!

Is he/she the one?
yes

Are you engaged?
no

Were you together last Valentines day?
no
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If so, what did you do?
N/A

Describe a cute memory you have together:
hmm… so many to choose from.  um, oddly enough i love when  we’re goofing off in bed.  not sex you preverts!

Do they know your deepest secrets?
yes

Do you trust them?
yes


About him or her

Have you met his/her family?
only her dad and stepmom

Has he/she met yours?
she’s met my immediate family

How many siblings do they have?
she has two older brothers

Are they the oldest, youngest or middle child in the family?
youngest (oops… kind of answered that one before…)

Are his/her parents divorced, separated or still married?
divorced.

What is his/her middle name?
Alaine

How about when is his/her birthday?
um… why do i feel like this is information i shouldn’t divulge? Aug. 29th, 1986

Have you been with them for more than a week?
<.< >.> wasn’t this question covered earlier?  yes i have (who fills out a relationship survey after a week… course, who fills out a relationship survey after 2 months… lol

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yup!

A year?
uh… no

How long exactly?
2 months, 13 days, 11 hours and *looks at clock* 19 minutes

Are they your height, taller, shorter than you?
actually, she’s about an inch taller than i

What colour are his/her eyes?
the most beautiful ice blue

What colour is his/her hair?
her and i argue about this one.  she says its brown, but i say is dark blonde, or light light light brown. lol

Do they have a job?
if being a student teacher is a job (which it is!)

Do they go to school?
technically, yes.

What is his/her best physical feature?
hmm… i love her eyes.  and her smile, oh and her breasts, and hair, and hands!  and well, the calves are pretty damn sexy, and that butt is pretty amazing…  um, everything?

What attracted you to him/her?
that she didn’t only want to use me to help her through her problems, but to also help me through mine.

Do they live next door to you?
*sigh* i wish…

Within five miles of you?
not so much…

In the same town?
no
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Do they have any pets?
cat – chloe (although, i think technically its her mom’s)
dog – shadow, who lives with her dad in my state.
she’s had a few other cats, but i think they have ended up with exes unfortunately.

What colour is his/her vehicle?
black i think… never seen it

What colour is the bedspread on his/her bed?
black and white

Do they have children with anyone else besides you?
um… not that i’m aware of… lol

Do you know his/her favourite movie?
i don’t actually… hmm…

What about his/her favourite band?
don’t know that either… uh oh, i’m in trouble.

Were they your first kiss?
no

Past relationships and things
How long were you single before you began dating your current boyfriend/girlfriend?
about 2 months

Who ended your last relationship prior to the current one you’re in?
my ex

Have you ever dated the same person more than once?
no

Why did your last relationship fail?
i’m not going to get into that…

Which is worse: being dumped or being the one who does it?
both are pretty hard… although i have far more experience being dumped, so…

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January 21, 2009

ryn: I wanna say it was either sexxx_goddess or wolfavien…I can’t remember honestly because I only had one page of comments. But I did see your diary name. And I remember it was either 03 or 04.

January 21, 2009

RYN- right now…anything I can get a job in! But seriously – I’m not really sure. I’ve really enjoyed many areas and could see myself doing different things. I have pretty much ruled out doing criminal law or family law though – messy and hard to handle on the long term. That is really neat that you guys met through OD! You are very cute together 🙂

January 22, 2009

I watched “my best friend’s girl” last night (with Dane Cook) and he took this very Christian girl out to dinner at a Jesus Themed Pizza Restraunt and she was deeply offended (as she should have been) and She screamed at everyone in the place “you’re all sinners!” to which the gothic waitress replyed “You should have thought about that 19 yrs ago when you stopped my mom from going to that clinic”

January 22, 2009

RYN: Yeah, hah, I liked the name too! It’s pretty much ruined now, though. =P I’m gonna swipe this survey! =)