The Men in My Life Part 2

So I am finally finding the time to continue my men entries.  Damn I work too much.  I don’t know who should be next in the line of men if my life I guess I’ll start with…

James- One of my ex boyfriends, who against all reason I am still friends with.  After everything that happened between us and all the horrible things he did to me I should hate him and not ever speak to him, let alone be friends with him, but somehow once all the initial anger passed I found myself friends with him.  I guess it doesn’t help that he works about 15 feet outside of my store and I see him just about everyday.  But in all honesty I’m glad that he is my friend.  So yeah he is a manwhore and we definitely could not ever be in a relationship ever again he’s helped me out in alot of tough situations.  And I’ve actually been a little too nice to him the past week or so getting my ass up at 6am and driving to LaPlata to pick him up from work and take him home while his roommate is out of town.  Did I mention how much I hate getting up at the buttcrack of dawn??  But he is my friend and I always help out my friends, which has been my downfall in the past.  My relationship with James is a little weird and at times kinda messy, but he is someone that I can talk to about anything and that means alot to me.  The only problem is that I can’t stand his girlfriend and I have to be nice to her.  She works in the mall as well and I see her sometimes.  Actually it’s not that I don’t like her, it’s just that it’s weird and she isn’t too friendly.  Not that I expect her to be my best friend or anything, but I dunno…Yeah I’m just gonna leave the rest of this alone.

Sean- There is one word that describes him best…ASSHOLE…yes Sean is the biggest asshole I know.  He is mean and rude and always looking for a fight.  But he is one of my best friends.  I don’t know why.  But the thing about him is that even though he’s an asshole and he treats people like crap sometimes, he has always been nice and caring towards me.  He lets me vent my problems and anger to him and then says something so assholish(if that’s even a word) that it cracks me up and makes me feel about 100 times better.  I guess he makes me feel alot better about myself and makes me feel like less of a bitch because he is such a mean mother effer…He is definitely one person that I hope I am friends with for the rest of my life. 

Grant- An old friend and ex boyfriend…actually he used to be my brother Dave’s best friend when they were kids.  But they grew apart and went their separate ways.  Years later I saw Grant a few times when he would come into my work and we talked a few times, went to a couple hockey games together and just started hanging out.  I don’t know how we actually ended up dating, but it was pretty weird at first because I had known him since he was in middle school and then as adults we ended up getting together.  Plus he is 2 years younger than me and I usually date men older than me, not younger.  But we were together for a few months.  I didn’t tell my brother cause I knew he would be pissed as hell.  He didn’t really care all that much for Grant.  And I’ll never forgot how Dave found out.  Grant had spent the night at my apartment and Dave came over to pick up a check that my dad had sent to my house.  He knocked on my bedroom door to ask me where it was and Grant answered the door…in his boxer shorts…and I had no clothes on although I was covered  under the blankets.  Let’s just say that my brother was pissed and stormed out of my house and didn’t speak to me for a long time.  But he got over it.  We are all friendly now.  I probably talk to Grant several times a week and see him whenever I go to Pittsburgh.  We mostly talk about hockey and how he thinks he knows so much more about it then I do.  NOT!!!  I am soooo always right when it comes to hockey.  That boy has so much to learn.  I’m glad that we still talk because people in this backwards hick town have no clue what hockey is and I go crazy not having someone to talk to about it.  Grant is definitely my best hockey friend.