04/29/2012

I know this is random and dumb. But I googled: Why do girls like jerks? and upon reading this I totally think I found why amanda is the way she is with me
"If a man was perfect to begin with, what would be so exciting in the relationship? Women would be bored and they would probably have to create non-existent problems in the relationship to spruce things up a little."

My goodness this explains so much. I don’t want to change who I am… but if I got her back I promise you I would consider it.
 

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April 30, 2012

Don’t let her change who you are. Girls like jerks because they just aren’t mature enough yet to appreciate a guy who treats them the way they should be treated.

I don’t think it’s stupid to google things like this, but you should look into medical journals and psychological studies, because they actually have many studies on this subject. In fact, studies have shown that women are not only attracted to “jerks” but also men who are already taken. Because it shows that they can protect you against others. It’s an animal instinct that stayed with us As for

your issue with your girl, I hope it works out with you, either way But don’t change who you are. Good guys are always better than bad ones ~Anna

May 1, 2012

Not all girls like jerks! Just the immature ones who aren’t ready for a real relationship and real life.