ugh ugh ugh

ok so i have a dilemma…. amber, a friend of mine, is roomates with arturo. Arturo gave me his number and told me to call him… the thing is amber has feelings for him but he doesnt want her… now the problem here is that i like him as a friend but dont want to call him because im afraid that she will freak out about it. I know she checks his phone everyday with out him knowing to see who he’s talking to. I dont want to be with him but i dont want to stir anything up either because we all know where that leads. Im now in the reverse position from where i was at last time… however, unlike grants lying ass, he really does just want to be friends too…. im not going to call him, he knows my number so if he calls i’ll deal with it then but i dont want to hurt amber, and i especially dont want to be the friend sneaking behind her back to chill with her roomate.