Question to all

Hey everyone,
 
    Wow, I am writing two days in a row and I might be back later for another update on my lunch, this is just an update with a question to all mother’s, mother’s to be, anyone in the planning stages of having a child, anyone in the medical field, or anyone whom wishes to share their opinion on the matter.
 
Today I go in for blood work at the OB/GYN and they are doing various tests, I have to ask them again what they are all doing, but I also have the option for them to do the Cystic Fibrosis test on myself and then later down the road my husband could be tested. Is this something I should do, wait for a while, not do, what are your opinions on it? Part of me says no because I know that even if I test positive and my husband does to by chance then we aren’t going to test the child to find out just to have an abortion. If God so wishes me to have a child with this condition then he must think that I can handle it. However, at the same time it would be nice to know just in case we both have it that we know the possibilities are higher and we can prepare ahead of time. I just wanted to know what you all thought about it. Thanks for the opinions in advance. And I just ask that you don’t attack me or anyone whom notes with their opinions, because it is just research for me in the end it will be my decision and my husbands as well, I just wanted to know what others have done and what you thought. Thanks again.

 

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