6/24/2018

Back at the end of February I met a girl. We met online. Starting talking. We hit it off and found we had a lot of similar interests. It didn’t take very long for our conversations to start to get very personal. It became apparent that we both had needs, mostly emotional, that we needed to work out. Our first date was at a sushi restaurant but she quickly decided I was ok and invited me back to her place. The night got interesting from there. It didn’t take long for us to start getting together multiple nights  week and then to start spending whole weekends together. However we did try to keep causal on certain levels. It seemed to necessary since she had plans to move. Before she met me she had decided to go to Korea for a stretch and was interviewing to be an english teacher over there.  So we spent a lot of time together but tried to keep it light even though we were sleeping together. April got interesting. She was supposed to start her period but she kept feeling sick and nothing was happening down there but she kept feeling worse and breaking out in sweats. I started insisting that she go to the doctor and actually drove her. Turns out she had a cyst on her ovary that had gone haywire. She had to have it removed that day. So I got her to the hospital and waiting for her while she went through outpatient surgery. Got her back to her house and spent the next week helping her recover. That made things a little interesting between us. Made us a little closer. Still tried to keep it light. Worked on not falling in love. She got her job in korea and in may she moved. When she moved I wasn’t sure about what would happen next. I thought about trying to date again. However we kept texting and after a while it became apparent to me that dating someone else wasn’t really interesting to me. We talk a lot and call each other. I miss her. She misses me. I don’t know what’s going to happen in the next year before she gets back. For now I’m not looking for someone else though. I want to explore what we have a little more. I won’t call it love. I don’t want a serious relationship such as marriage. She doesn’t want that either. But we do seem to want to spend more time with each other. All I can say is that it’s going to be a long year.