Intern Addendum…

Well it was an emotional rollercoaster for those caught up in the love triagle and my services as councellor continued. It really was a weird position to be in, hearing everyone’s side. At one point I thought that there was hope in recilliation but that seems a unlikely at this point. The more I learned from each, the more I wondered what the relationship was built on in the first place. I learned a lot of interesting things though, some which explained how they ended up where they did. One was that MG had never been on her own and had a history of going from relationship to relationship. As all of this unfolded, she got an apartment but was unable to even spend the night. She would literally freak out at the prospect of being alone. I suspect there was some demons in her past that she may have even blocked out. Of course, she turned to the guy in the middle for support which made things worse.

Adding to thr drama, I guess she is a classic diarist and records everything. She then made the mistake of leaving it somewhere that hubby can find. He now refers to it as the "Book of Pain". She included every thought she had for each person. Even after this, they decided to still try councelling but that lasted all of one more session. She felt the councellor sided with MR on everything. To some degree, that person may have been right although the problem went much deaper than this infidelity, which at that point was only some kissing. MR also started issuing some ultimatums which didn’t go over well. Not sure why he would be surprised – MG is a very headstrong.

What was supposed to be a final weekend for MG and my other intern SS turned out to be anything but. In fact, all lines were crossed this time. I just shook my head when she told me. At least she agrees with me in that she should see someone privately because she does have many issues to work out.

When watching this, it makes me appreciate how stable my life is. No dramas are anything close to this. hopefully I’ve helped.

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July 19, 2005

It is so common as you read in my diary but the guy in my diary doesn’t see that he has done wrong and now that his infatuation has gone oversea’s he’s all over his wife again…bastard! I’m so glad my hubby is loyal, honest and devoted to me as I to him so it looks as though we’ll stick it out for a while 😉 *hugs*

July 19, 2005

yes yes – I am all for a drama free life

July 20, 2005

People are all so different.. different needs, wants, expectations. It’s a wonder anyone stays together!

July 22, 2005

RYN: Yes my work mates remarked favourably! 🙂

July 22, 2005

I would love to try that no drama life!