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Great big thank yous to everyone who noted my last post.  It seems the consensus is that I was not obligated to tell her about the interviews.  All my friends, virtual or otherwise, have echoed the sentiment that her reaction is out of the ordinary.  And I now know who spilled the beans.  It was probably an accident, and even if it wasn’t I don’t care. 

So I feel better.  Thanks again.

On Friday (the day after she found out), she didn’t speak to me.  She was only in the office briefly and then left early for the day.  My direct supervisor is completely cool with it.  She said she doesn’t want me to leave, but she knew I wouldn’t be there forever.  I guess the big boss sent her a scathing e-mail after she found out, assuming that she knew about it and was keeping secrets.  Such folly. 

Was in a wedding this weekend.  The best man was smokin’ hot.  It was all I could do to keep from dashing away from my spot and just dry humping him right there.  Yikes-a-bee!  He was from Germany, along with the groom and several other members of the wedding party.  All that Teutonic majesty around me – it was quite the enjoyable experience, never mind the 95-degree heat. 

The priest pissed me off.  She decided to show up 30 minutes later than she said she would, and she changed a couple of significant things just before the wedding.  And another related rant: she’s twice told people things about me that I didn’t really want known.  Both times it was something that will eventually become public, and neither time did I specifically say, "Please don’t tell anyone yet."  However, it was clear in each case that I was deciding something personal for myself, and that I would be making up my mind in the near future.  She, however, went ahead and spoke to some people about it. 

I’m starting to feel like I should be more judicious with what I share with this person.  Argh!