Angst

How do you deal with parents who ask too many questions at the wrong times, too little questions at the wrong times, say things that couldn’t possibly have any positive effect on the conversation at hand, much less, the relationship? How do you make them understand what you’re saying? I feel like I must be the only person on the planet who has parents like I do. It’s as if they just never got the hint as to what being a parent is all about.
Not like normal parents who don’t understand their teenager. I mean, coming from as objectionable a view as possible, my parents never quite figured out how to be parents. Like I said, they don’t ask the right questions, nor the right amount. It shouldn’t have been up to me as a young teen to decide whether or not I told my parents where I was going, yet it was. But then, when I get home from school or someone’s house or a trip somewhere, they would never ask how it went, and if they did, it was to only find out a bit of what I did, rather than whether or not I really liked it. Alas, they never seemed too interested in what I was doing. Never seemed overly enthusiastic about helping me with my schoolwork or getting me to even study a bit (which is most regretful). And now, I’ve grown up, realized what’s happened. But there’s no feasible way to change anything. It’s like never turning in a homework assignment the whole semester, getting down to the week before finals and hoping to pass the class. You do the math.

edit: I think it’ll be okay though.

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December 22, 2005

Nice MCS allusion…. haha. As for your parents. It’s part of being a teenager. Teenagers have two responses, warm and affectionate, or… 3-2-1, KABOOM! (explosion) Parents have a really hard time destinguishing between the two. That’s my only explanation, I have similar troubles with my parentals (only when no one’s looking though :-P)

parents…my parents are pretty amazing…and…I still have an amazingly hard time with them…they do all the right things…and ask all the right questions, but are so scared they are asking too manny…they feel so lost even when they do everything right…and, it is still one of the toughest relationships I have to deal with…just realize even the best aren’t close to perfect…yay for God?

December 22, 2005

oh yes, yay for God. I’d be lost without him.