02/24/2013

In the past five years I’ve only told Mike I loved him once, and I was drunk when I did. Last night I finally decided I would tell him I loved him. But, he ended up having this girl with him and leaving before I could talk to him. I sent him a text joking that I had wanted to talk to him. He called me this morning but I didn’t answer the phone 1.the call woke me up and I’m not good at forming sentences when suddenly woken up. And 2.. I don’t want to talk about what I want to talk about on the phone. And explaining it would take away from it. i don’t even know if I should say it anymore…Last night I was ready. It felt like it was time, but now the time has passed.

I love him. I can’t be with him. He’s moving soon. Should I tell him? I mean, he knows. He’s not stupid. But should I put myself in that vulnerable position?

Monkeybrains1202

February 26, 2013

If you’ve never said it to him when you were sober then maybe you should tell him…a lot of times people know things but its better when they hear it coming from the person…I wouldn’t want to be left with the “what if” question in my head so I would tell him before he leaves

And even though it may make you vulnerable and probably might hurt you…I think its better than regretting not telling him…If its what you feel…why not tell him?

Barrelhead

April 2, 2013

Be vulnerable. We don’t know the guy. But if the situation is as flimsy as it appears here, then your confession of love will only pass as a meaningless impulse. Love is commitment, passion, and intimacy. It seems like you only have the passion, and you’re setting yourself up for pain if that passion is one-sided. Trust your gut.