Rampant BS
Miranda and I are no longer friends. She told me and a few others if we talked to this one girl she was cutting ties with us. I told her that she was being silly for asking something like that when the only thing Casey did was call her names, exactly as Miranda did to her. It’s not like she did anything besides call her fat when Miranda told Casey that her child was going to be a whore like her mom. When I told Miranda that if she could cut ties with us so easily then she wasn’t as close to me as I thought, Miranda said, "Well, maybe I fucking wasn’t!". So we fought back and forth for a while. She called me selfish because she’d drop whoever I asked her to, and I told her it was selfish to ask something like that in the first place.
She said I wasn’t a true friend and it was done, so I assumed that meant we weren’t friends. So I deleted her on facebook because I only keep actual friends on there and it seemed pretty clear to me that we were done. Well, she got pissed and said "fuck you bitch! It’s funny that you delete me when you messaged me first on facebook not the other way around." and I said, "Um. I deleted you because we agreed we weren’t friends, dumbass." She went on to call me pathetic, say that I talked about my ex too much and whatnot and obviously wasn’t over him. I told her it helps to vent about him, and she talks about him as much as me if not more so. I said almost every thought she bitched about him so much because she was jealous that she’s the only one who hasn’t slept with him and because when Casey cheated with him, Miranda told her to cheat with anyone but him. She was fine the other times Casey cheated, but as soon as it was my ex, suddenly Casey was this horrible person. And really, Miranda talks about him more than I do.
I then went on to tell her that how she treats her boyfriend, Garett, is wrong. She calls him fat, ugly, cheap, a low-life, and he needs to get a job. I said, "how can you call him that when you’ve never had a job, you live with your parents at 30, and you have no life goals? You get pissed at him for not buying you enough things and badger him into buying you $60 living dead dolls. If you want him to get a job, why can’t you get one?"
The last thing I said was in regards to her weight. Now, she’s not just chubby, or slightly fat. She’s over 500 pounds. Maybe over 600 pounds. I didn’t say "Oh, you fat bitch, meh meh meh". I said that her friends were worried about her health and that it has come up before that people were scared she was going to have a heart attack and die in like ten years. I told her that if she loved herself and her friends and family that she needed to do something about it. That I thought she was beautiful, but her weight wasn’t healthy at all, and no one else had said anything because of her temper.
Her response was to tell me I needed to wash my nasty pussy, that she wasn’t a whore like me so she didn’t want to sleep with my ex (I was a virgin when I first slept with him and she’s been with twice the amount of people as me. Oh, and she sent three texts in regards to my ex. Seems like denial. ) and that I was an ugly, man-looking bitch and I had no room to talk about her weight because I was GETTING fat.
So, I confront her about actual issues: her unhealthy weight, how she treats her boyfriend, and I threw in my ex thing because she threw it at me when our group had mentioned the same about her; and she calls me names.
I don’t care if we’re ever friends again, but I really do hope she does something about her weight. Because she should grow old and have kids. But she can’t have kids at her weight, she’s already had a miscarriage before, and in 6 or so years the probability of the child having down syndrome greatly increases. She needs to do something now if she wants kids of her own. But whatever. I tried. It’s in her hands.