No More Brothers or Sisters

I was informed today that after mom goes that my siblings won’t be helping me….it was really quite an email…lets see I’m an adult and dont’ need their help…but their adult children who are in school and working NEED their help so they can’t come see mom very often…hmmm odd don’t you think?

It read as if they blame me for mom’s lungs with the animals…but what stopped them from helping me clean the house? But hey they say I am doing better…I’ve asked them to start now…pretend I don’t exists.

I don’t get it….God gave me a crappy childhood and now my adulthood is being screwed…while I see others get everything…it just doesn’t make sense to me….the sick thing is…had it been the other way around I wouldn’t turn them away…they say God doesn’t give you more than you can handle…I’m beginning to think that isn’t true.

I know their day is coming…what goes around comes around…I just hope I live to see it.

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May 20, 2005

Oh, Ruthie, I am soooo sorry. I think the best thing for you to do is to have a lawyer and if your mother doesn’t have an official will, get one. There are power-of-attorney forms she can sign and in her will, she can name you executor of her estate so that you don’t get screwed any further. I’m sorry your siblings are being so selfish.

May 20, 2005

Ruthie, their day is coming and Karma is a bitch! They will walk in similiar shoes one day and then realize what sacrafices YOU made/make. Your siblings are trash, unbelievable. You have friends you can count on!

May 20, 2005
May 20, 2005

so Sorry

May 20, 2005

I’m so sorry… *hug*

May 23, 2005

I am so sorry all this is happening. Falling Dog gave you some good advice up there – I hope you follow it!