Today is just yesterday waiting to happen

I wonder where all the time slips away to?  Its so easy to fall into the flow of things and get washed away by weeks of nothing.  I happen to be making very little of my time here, which is something I promised myself I wouldn’t do, and on top of everything I’ve lost my follow through.  if you find it…let me know?  
    So let’s have a hypothetical situation here.   There’s a girl, let’s call her Cat, and she has a friend whom she misses a lot, but she’s always afraid he’s angry with her, and it makes it hard for her to pick up the phone and call him.  Still, she tries, and always gets his voicemail when she gets up her courage to call.  Then, when he finally calls her, he suggests they hang out.  But the time comes, and she calls him twice.  NO response.  Then a week later Cat’s friend calls to hang out again.  He even calls her again two nights before the day they’re supposed to chill.  He tells her that he’d like to hang out, but he doesn’t know, because he suddenly remembered lots of things he’s got to do.  Even still, Cat calls him on that day…no answer.  So tell me this…is Cat delusional, or does her friend just genuinely not want to spend time with her.  It’s sad, because things like this make her even more afraid to call him.  She’s very tired of ebing disapointed, and then feeling like its her fault somehow.
    Wonder what she should do?