Sex with People.

At what point does someone go from being a ‘fuck’, to a ‘fuck buddy/friend with benefits’? Is there a difference between ‘fuck buddy’ and ‘friends with benefits’? Where does ‘booty call’ and ‘Random sex’ come into play?

Random sex:
Simple physical attraction, usually with someone never met before outside of a virtual environment (internet, personal add, public space). The intention for sex will be established, rolls laid out, fetish/environment and location/time will be determined for the sole act.
Both parties will meet for simple sexual release and will probably not meet again.

Booty Call:
Physical attraction/chemistry. Most often someone you’ve met once or twice before (see ‘Random sex’). A spur of the moment event where you’d meet where you’d have sex, for the sole purpose of having sex. No social attachments and limited emotional conveyance between parties.

Fuck buddy:
Good chemistry with limited emotional attachment. A fuck buddy could be someone with whom you would socialize with outside of having sex. Plans will not be made together, but rather you often share the same social scene and see each other regularly as a matter of consequence. Sexual encounters are usually spur of the moment or when there is nothing else better to do. A relationship built of fun and playfulness fuck buddies may only socialize together if sex is to ensue afterwards. Fuck buddies would not be exclusive and the relationship would be called off at any time if either person were to enter into an exclusive relationship with a third party.

Friends with benefits:
Emotional and physical attraction, first and foremost these two people are friends. The big difference between their friendships is sex. Friends with benefits have the ability to go out on date-like activities, which is useful for formal parties and weddings. However, real dates are not initiated because there is no romantic interest between the partners. The intention of hanging out is because they enjoy similar activities and each other’s company. Sex is an optional part of the relationship. If one partner has sex outside of the relationship, it does not end their friendship. Instead, the sex element is usually taken out of the relationship and they continue to be friends.

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March 6, 2010

I think you answered your own question.

March 6, 2010

interesting…I always used **** Buddy and Friends with Benefits as synonyms

March 6, 2010

I’ve never had random sex, a booty call, a fuck buddy, or a friend with benefits. I’m fated to be a serial monogamist. Then again, there was that cousin that I used to fuck on and off for like 15 years though… r: The girlfriend and I joke around about a lot of stuff that isn’t funny in reality: episiotomies, fistulas, punching babies, syphilis, racism. Life is hard enough withoutbeing able to laugh at it.

March 6, 2010

RYN: Confused about what?

March 6, 2010

RYN: OoOo…what kind did you buy?? As for this entry, I have to agree with Octo. I think you answered your own question.

March 6, 2010

RYN:RMN: I hate you and am insanely jealous! Kidding. No really, I’m kind of miffed because it seems like the only place I can find any kind of designer shoes are Macy’s [which are typically old man-ish] or online. And I really didn’t want to wait a week for them. Do you guys have like, outlet stores in Oz–I know, stupid American question…

March 6, 2010

RYN: An outlet store is where you can buy merchandise from one particular company or brand, like a Nike Store or a Converse store etc. Generally, they are less expensive because there’s no overhead…it’s just one brand. I was wondering if you guys had those there…

March 6, 2010

i’ve only ever had sex with my husband, but hes all those things, hehe

March 6, 2010

I have nothing that will add to this discussion, so I will just say that I love Lady Gaga and you as well. Well, I loved you first, so I guess you win. 🙂 Love,

March 7, 2010

p.s. i love LG 🙂

March 7, 2010

it always gets muddy around the friends with benefits and your f*ck buddys but essentially they’re the same thing

March 7, 2010

lol amen.

March 7, 2010

RYN: I took four tries at it because 1. I didn’t think the chili powder was that THICK on the sucker, I thought it was like a dusting >.< and 2. I figured if I could at least taste the sucker, it might taste a little better lol

March 7, 2010

hey 🙂 been a while. i . . . dance whenever i come to your page. ryn: no. i’m a commitmentophile. everything’s so fleeting, i ****ing latch on to anything that feels like it might be there tomorrow.

March 7, 2010

*crackles and pops*

March 7, 2010

I’m not sure where the relationship changes. I’ve only had two and both pretty much started as *uck buddies. The first lasted about a year. The second – well, we’re going on seven years in about a week. Wil

March 7, 2010

So glad you cleared that up for us.

March 7, 2010

i did always wonder about the distinction

March 8, 2010

Wow. Now I’m “down” with the lingo. I’m just monogomous and nearly married. LMAO.

March 8, 2010

Interesting definitions 🙂 Ahhhh I love me Some Gaga!!!

March 20, 2010

whats it called when it goes a few steps beyond friends with benefits, but stays in a paused state and never turns into a said relationship…denial? lol

April 2, 2010

oh my god. this little nugget of gold had me giggling like a twit. i found myself sliding People I Have ****ed into their appropriate categories as I kept reading. some fit into several, either working their way in or out of my emotion maker as the time in which i knew them went on hmmm hurray for graduating sluts!

November 4, 2010

‘friends with benefits’ sounds like the perfect deal in that definition, cos i’m ALL about the affection! But only if their hot too cos i’m shallow 🙂