Get the BBW? Not.
I don’t get the whole BBW thing… like, why would you want to advertise that you’re "Plus Size" and happy to be that way? That, to me, says a few things to everyone else who sees you.
1- I’ve given up trying to lose weight.
2- I can’t be bothered worrying about my health, so I’ll just take pills to fix whatever goes wrong.
3- (if married) : I don’t care what my spouse thinks about how I look, and it’s not enough for him to divorce me over.
Yeah, sorry, don’t get it. It seems like a crappy way to go through the one life that you have to live. I suppose a person could profess to be happy living like that, but I don’t believe it. Then again, I’m not in that situation, so I really can’t comment. I guess it works for some people.
I guess it hasn’t occurred to you that not all men like stick-thin anorexic bitches with no boobs?
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My husband won’t even date thin women…I’m overweight and don’t have a problem with it. It’s just weight. Who cares? People are just far too obsessed with the physical in this world. Besides, we’re all going to get old one day and wrinkle up and our skin will sag and nothing will look like it used to. Will you post a blog then about how you don’t think people are happy being old? Seriously. Grow up.
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95% of diets don’t work – people end up putting the weight back on. At some point, people who keep more meat on their bones naturally than other people either have to live forever on a reduced-calorie diet and insane amounts of exercise, or be happy with their fat. Fat, active people are proven to live as long – in fact slightly longer – than thin, inactive people.
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Personally I’ve always found curvier, slightly overweight women really, really hot, and so has my extremely cute muscled flat-stomached boyfriend who, wow, I’ve just been completely distracted by the thought of as I’m typing this note. Aaanyway… live and let live dude. I just eat nutritious food, walk around a lot, and love myself for who I am (or who I’m working towards being). 😀
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Besides – I think big is beautiful – just ’cause you don’t doesn’t mean I can’t shout it from the rooftops. I think if you open your mind to different levels of beauty, and different types of body size, you might find beauty where you never expected it before. Of course, if you’re 190 kg and can’t walk up a flight of stairs without collapsing, then it’s a health issue.
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You don’t have to like fat women. Some people think that really skinny people can be incredibly shallow, that all they work on is appearance. There’s a fourth possibility, by the way: it’s so difficult to lose weight, it could become a full-time job and obsession, or I could enjoy my life and try to strike a happy balance.
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Oh, and from the looks of the notes, it seems you have succeeded.
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