12/29/2012
Ugh. Still flustered. It doesn’t surprise me.
I’m ready to tell everyone to shut the fuck up and to leave me alone. I’ll just rent a little loft somewhere.
I feel like ass because my mother does not realize that she can not control me anymore. She is obsessed with interfering with my life and creates so much drama and bullshit for me. I’m so depressed.
I love my boyfriend to death. OMFG he is so nice and sexy. Wonderful man.
My mom is now trying to break us up (which happens to all my relationships.) Yelling about "red flags" and all this ho ha.
SHUT THE FUCK UP.
I’m sick of being in the middle of this shit.
Maybe tomorrow I’ll have something cool to say.
Whatever
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Parents are always concerned with red flags, sometimes they are right, sometimes not so much. Sometimes though it’s important to confront those ‘red flags’ and see just exactly how far they go, what proof does your mother have? What evidence do you have that she is wrong? Also what business is it of hers to interfere in your relationship? There are behaviours you need to challenge and if your parents response is as basic as “under my roof, my rules” then you’re already ready to move into a single loft so this should not be an issue, it is down to you to challenge this and not let them control your life. You don’t need to be in the middle of things, screaming for release or for silence, the power of this is in your hands if you can claim your own independence already by living on your own, kids and parents always grow apart, it is a natural thing, however it does not have to turn bitter, all you need to do is make the choices that best suit you and your life, not conform with your parents views and base beliefs. It’s all down to you. Regards, G
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Haven’t seen you in awhile. Glad to see you’re still here though. Take care hun.
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My mom does this. But she doesn’t trust anything with a penis.
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